My boyfriend ended things with me on sunday(he's in the army) and i didn't break down or anything.
i hear and see all these females that just lose it when things end but nothing like that happend to me.
Him and i are going to still be friends.
is it because people are all different? my one friend told me that i was one of the strongest persons she's seen. because she would have been bawling her eyes out.
but i have this calmness over me. I relized that the army is his top priority and he shouldn't have to worry about a girlfriend. and maybe being friends will bring us closer again...and maybe pick up after he's done with the army. and i'm still going to support him 110%.
2006-10-03 05:25:56 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nope there is nothing wrong with you being a strong woman. You just know that life goes on and if things were meant between you two he will make you his priority once he is done with the Army. You go girl!!!!!!!! I wish more woman could do that. What they don't realize is the man is not sitting at home balling his eyes out over them so why would you do that for him?????? Stay strong and spread the word. Woman run this world. The ball is always in our court!!!
2006-10-03 05:34:21 · answer #1 · answered by HappyMama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is nothing wrong you with. Each person handles a situation differently. You are a strong person, and that's really good! I hope that things end up the way you want them to! Best of luck!
2006-10-03 12:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by marypaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just aren't In love with him....AND you are mature, and strong and secure with yourself. ALL great qualities and who knows, you may be right in that it could bring you closer when he comes home.
Bravo!
:)
2006-10-03 12:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, nothing is wrong with you. You sound like a very sensible person to me.
2006-10-03 12:33:05 · answer #4 · answered by candy7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because you don't love him too much or you are independent
peoples are diffrent , it's not about stronger & weaker
its about poeple who more emotional about something than anothers.
sorry for my bad english
gl
2006-10-03 12:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by Soap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a lot of confidence and maturity.
2006-10-03 12:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. And good luck.
2006-10-03 12:30:36 · answer #7 · answered by elgil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋