I am a bigger girl myself and seems like I can never find a guy for me because most of them are always putting you down. Why is this and why can't people be more considerate?
2006-10-03 05:21:37 · 16 answers · asked by aerogrl872000 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Hold your head up girl you are average! Why are guys like that...because they think with something other than their brains. The media makes it seem like everyone should and can achieve being a size <0! I mean I think you should be healthy but too thin is not healthy. As you get older it does get better but until then don't settle for anything but the best and dont ever ever let some guy put you down. There is a guy out there that will love you for you!
2006-10-03 05:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by Stiletto ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Society.. Look at some of the tv shows (king of queens) the wife is all petite and the husbands big. It's more acceptable for men to be overweight. sad I know..there was a time when bigger women were considered more attractive. They were seen as healthy and able to have children. Guys loved that. You can tell by the paintings done in that era..
Not all men are like that (picky about weight).
I am more of a face and personality person, so I could care less if my guy has extra pounds..
2006-10-03 12:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by Aidge 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I too am a bigger girl, but happened to find a good looking, good hearted man that just so happens to like a little more meat on the bones! He doesn't like skinny women because he says when he hugs them, it feels like he is hugging himself, or a bag of bones. I hated it when I knew a guy liked me, but would not go out with me because of my weight..because "omg what would everybody think?" Then they end up with all the skinny girls, who by the way, usually end up fat. I've seen 20 girls I went to school with who were skinny and popular, and who are now bigger than me!
2006-10-03 12:30:43 · answer #3 · answered by Angie R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think guys usually want to be able to show off there girl,I have always had the same problem, then one day mr right came, girl someone will come along eventually, and you will be happy you waited,,I know I sure am,,and plus I lost a ton of weight I wanna go back home and let my exes see what they could have had,,,hahahaha..Keep ya head up chica!!
2006-10-05 15:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a nature's phenomena! They have two heads, but they are only using their eyes! You are who you are, if you want to change the way you look, there are hundreds of ways to do so, like sport, diets, yoga... BUT, only if YOU want to! Don't let others to set weight standards. If you are happy, then they have the problem. I heard this somewhere: You don't have a problem with your weight, people do! I mean, find someone who isn't shallow-minded. You will find him, girl. Just believe in your self and in Him. He must come around.
2006-10-03 12:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by Looda_Plavusha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm bigger and don't have trouble finding dates. I think a lot of it depends on where you live and the group of people you are around and age.
Don't worry about it, it does get better, I assure you!! I have more dates now at 33 than at 23.
2006-10-03 12:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by empress_pam 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
its because of the way magazines portray women as thin. but i see now that tv and mags etc are taking a twist and promoting women with curves!
ok so im a size 2 but im curvy and skinny girls are just NOT cool!!!! guys are stupid and shallow. its ok for them to have the beer belly. but when u meet the right guy he wouldnt care if uve put on a couple of pounds.
2006-10-03 12:27:18 · answer #7 · answered by nas_staci 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your chasing the wrong guys. If their nice to any girl, it's not real, their just after something. A decent guy wouldn't put you down even if he wasn't interested. Your probably just getting to see their true colors, that are hidden from most people.
2006-10-03 12:26:32 · answer #8 · answered by JENNIFER M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are guys out there that will love you, for you, regardless of your size......its a matter of choosing to spend your time around people that dont have problems with larger people and sticking too it, - why waste your time on people that want you to be something that you arent? - secondly, you need better self esteem, i have been a larger girl most of my adult life, and have never found an issue with guys wanting me..............love yourself for the person that you are.....and forget what people want you to be, thats the only way you are ever going to begin to feel sexy and love yourself .......get out there, dont try to hard and be who you are, not want you arent.........
2006-10-03 12:31:45 · answer #9 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are probably attracted to the wrong type of man. There are men out there who find big women very attractive. Also, men cannot resist a woman who is self-confident, no matter what her size is. Self-confidence is the ultimate sexy.
2006-10-03 12:43:35 · answer #10 · answered by Zari A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋