I know it is usually from other way around, but how can I become friends with my ex? We rushed into relationship way too early and we both realised that the time was not on our side with my ex's side emotional luggage from his previous relationship, and my insecurity which was caused by his unstableness. But we still both care a lot about each other.
2006-10-03 05:00:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it will never work unless both of you are absolutly over it. if one of you still has any feelings don't even bother trust me i have plenty of experience
2006-10-03 05:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by mackley222 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he extremely loved you he will be with you and only you .He has a kin what takes position once you've a baby will your baby also settle for an element time father?There are too many undesirable scenes that would happen.have you ever heard of alienation of affections..properly lets only say i wish you've a good pastime because if the spouse catches you it really is you who will pay.And enable us no longer even communicate the way you'll sense after he receives drained of you.i became the different woman and certain i have self belief he loved me.yet he did the right component and that i will love him better for that than i'd ever have loved him if he performed the playing cards you're being performed.he's there for the sex honey at the same time as he famous yet another you and any baby you do not stress him to pay for will be left with a foul style on your hearts.
2016-11-26 00:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try understanding feelings for each other to realise where you stand in a relationship. I'm going through similar situation with my girlfriend. But our relationship is improving again as her emotions are being settled after getting rid of previous relationship. We're hoping to get along as lovers again as days go by.
Wish you luck, if you're thinking in similar direction. :)
2006-10-03 05:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was agreed between the two of you being friends will come natural because you were both adults about the situation. But put some time and space between the two of you hanging out alone because the sexual tension is still there and you'll just end up back in the same situation.
2006-10-03 05:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
To tell the truth - quite easy. By keeping distance (as in miles) between the two. Talk to him over the phone and limit it to five minute conversations till you feel good and ready to be a real friend. Shoot him an email just to see how he's doing. BUT CUT IT RIGHT THERE.
If you see him, you become reminded of all the things, and hence you avoid him till you can deal with it in person.
2006-10-03 05:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by Mystress 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know how this feels-i am in this sort of situation right now...we dated for a while, but realized that for right now we should just remain friends...and we still care about each other...though your situation may be different from mine, it is possible for you all to remain friends since there is no bad blood between you and him...just have good communication with one another and it should be fine
2006-10-03 05:20:21 · answer #6 · answered by dreamblackcrow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End the relationship now. It will never work out.
2006-10-03 05:03:35 · answer #7 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's possible to be friends after lovers. It's usually not possible to fully move on with your life if you are still friends.
2006-10-03 05:03:24 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust me... it will not work!! Put a full stop to the relationship right then!!
2006-10-03 05:08:45 · answer #9 · answered by Little Angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋