Okay me and my boyfriend we live and hour away from each other and I told him that I didn't want him to going to partys cause thats cheating to me I mean I'm not there. He was okay with it then someone told him a party was this Friday he said I'll be there and I said oh for real he said he dont understand how i'm cheating I said because you got a chick dancing all on you he said so as long as I don't do anything to her.
But my question is do you think i'm crazy for not wanting him to go our is he disrespecting me. What would you do if this was you
2006-10-03 04:51:02 · 13 answers · asked by Scooby_doo06 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How Silly R U? Scooby Dooby Doooooooooo!
I could not understand u people. Why every body is cheating in USA or Eur countries? There is no code of ethics I've observed. Please find some one who don't even think of some one else, what to talk of dancing or kissing some one else! I consider it Cheating. Lady he is not loyal to your love before marriage, what will do after that. Just leave this kind of man.
2006-10-03 05:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally feel you on this one. I would not want my boyfriend to go to parties with out me. Those are things that you do when you are single. When you are in a relationship there are certain sacrifices that should be made. But the more you tell him you don't want him to go he is going to want to go. ( guys are dumb like that) So if anything let him do his thing and go the party. If he ends up doing something with someone than that party just saved you a bunch of time that you would have wasted on him. But yes he is disrespecting you by not caring about your feelings and going anyway.
And this is not going to be the only party ever that he gets invited to so think of all the other parties he is going to want to go to after this. Is this something that you can deal with being so far away???
2006-10-03 12:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by HappyMama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not cheating but if you expressed to him that you did not feel comfortable with him being at parties, he should be respectful and more considerate of your feelings not to attend. If he keeps going to parties after I've asked him not to, I wouldn't put up with him. How would he feel if he asked you not to attend parties, but you did it anyway. Tell him that if he continues to party, then he can see what it's like to party without having a g/f. If partying is that important to him, maybe he should find a girl who doesn't mind him partying.
2006-10-03 12:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way hes disrespecting you, is if he cheats, and just going out is not cheating. You cant expect him to stay home and never go out with his friends. He deserves to have a life. If he loves you, he wont cheat.
2006-10-03 11:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by ~~ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i understand what you are going though i am going though the same thing and if my boyfriend wants to go to a party i would tell him or my mom to take me so that i could be there cuz it pisses me off when we go to the club and some ***** starts danceing with him but i just do the same thing i danced with some random guys
2006-10-03 11:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by hugeflirt4eva 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot expect him to give up having fun. He is not cheating on you, dancing is not cheating. I think you should lighten up a little and let him go out.
2006-10-03 11:55:52 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is not cheating by dancing... go to parties with out him... see how he feels.
2006-10-03 11:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's cheating but it is disrespectful. When my husband thinks something is o.k and I don't think it is... I show him how it would feel if the shoe was on the other foot.
2006-10-03 11:58:09 · answer #8 · answered by Briget B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would I do if I was you? I would just travel one hour (is not that bad and plus is on Friday) to be in that party with him. Why don't you go with him?????????
2006-10-03 13:32:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him be, let him have fun. just because hes going to a party doesnt mean hes cheating. c'mon be happy, if you trust him than theres not to worry about.
2006-10-03 12:17:33 · answer #10 · answered by blue heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋