there's this guy I met online who lives in the same city as mine. We're not just good friends, but great. (we never met though). I think I'm special to him but dunno to which extent. I'm startin to realise I have a crush on him but I'm afraid if I tell him I loose the beautiful friendship I never had with anyone else bfr. Should I tell him?
2006-10-03 04:44:27 · 11 answers · asked by MalaK 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Meet him as a friend first, of course if you are old enough to do that. But see how you feel once you meet in person within minutes you will know if you should tell him. It all changes when you meet in person.
2006-10-03 04:47:15 · answer #1 · answered by kirsten215 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OKay.. first of all you need to meet the guy. IM him and say lets meet some where and get a bite to eat. Then get to know him better! Talking to someone online is totally diff than in person. You may find that he really isnt your type after all. Its happened to me before. Dont tell him you like him untill you are truely sure. =) Then you wont have to worry about messing up a friendship
Hope I could help?
2006-10-03 04:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lets just call him TJ for the sake of his initials. He's brilliant(just downright amazing on this), sweet, funny, stunning eyes, laid back but also very assertive when needed, opinionated, modest, well spoken, never gets boring, amazing taste in music, he's very observant, he doesn't just see me as some hot chick but appreciates me for my brain and keeps up with me, charming, sexy, honest. To be honest the list is endless with this one. I for the life of me can't figure out why he'd like me back when he is so incredible himself.
2016-03-27 03:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't, he can change.. try to provoke him to confess if he's feeling something more for you, talk about meeting, an online relation is very fragile and can break very easily; maybe even make him a bit jealous to see how he reacts, good luck with your luv
2006-10-03 04:51:13 · answer #4 · answered by viziata 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I advise you to first find out what he feels, your gonna have to find the courage to, and if he doesn´t feel the same way dont pressure him, BUT if he does then ask him how he would feel about it,,if he seems uncomftorble dont try to force it remember things happen naturally!! Good Luck!
2006-10-03 04:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by hfmfb 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be careful. Try to meet him first and the second thing is taht it takes time to devlop any relationship. Don't hurry, Think ....
2006-10-03 04:47:26 · answer #6 · answered by Sabyasachi 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should meet for a friendly dinner first (public place). You may be worrying for no reason.
This reminds me of a movie.... "You Got mail"
2006-10-03 04:48:40 · answer #7 · answered by Import Beer Man 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are such good friends then you should tell him, maybe he feels the same
2006-10-03 04:50:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Flip a coin, let Destiny decide.
2006-10-03 04:46:36 · answer #9 · answered by Game Guy 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
There is no need to tell him.
2006-10-03 04:52:34 · answer #10 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋