I have showered gifts upon an unwelcome receipient. Fair enough if you don't like me, I don't like everyone I meet, but I sure as hell don't blast them out of the water if we don't gel.
But to add insult, scorn, and ridicule to the response is unwarranted at best. That be a trait of woman to be petty, and vindictive, but is Karma one-sided? I think it should go BOTH ways...
What would be a proper X-mas gift for this person? Perhaps 100 boxes wraped within each other with no gift inside? An empty card? A $1.00 gift card to Wal-Mart?
Some suggestions please for that special hmmm...someone...
Thank you.
2006-10-03 04:43:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe you should give yuourself the gift of professional help. Only crazy people think the way you do.
2006-10-03 04:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you gave unsolicited gifts, they were returned,now you want revenge. I do not see the problem. If you gave the gifts and expected some one to fall into your arms, and they did not, rather they were forceful in their returning the gifts,your feelings have been hurt. Why can you not accept the fact that you are not welcome in this persons life. May I suggest you look at your motive and see what exactly you thought was going to happen when you gave the gifts. This is not a place for revenge, rather it is a place to learn something about yourself and become a better person, I believe you are a person of good intent, you might try to find a better way to show others
2006-10-03 11:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might sound like it's going against the grain. But, buy her a great gift!! So great, that you put a guilt trip on her... even rub it in!!! Even hint around that you are hoping for something as fabulous in return even though you don't. Then no more gifts after that. If she has a speckle of compassion, she should show some gratitude; if not, send her packing.... People come and goes just like money does. So if the girl isn't worth it, then to hell with it and splurge on yourself!
2006-10-03 11:48:44 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can not for the life of me understand why you would wish to gift someone who is as you describe her "an unwelcome recipient".
Nothing would be the proper christmas gift - don't go to the trouble of those other things - that's just being petty on your part.
Rise above this person & move along. Find somebody who wants your gifts.
2006-10-03 11:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are my suggestions: 1. A gift wrapped box full of dog poop; 2. A used airline ticket to some exotic destination; or 3. A large screw and a "U" shaped piece of metal...get it?
Hope this helps.
2006-10-03 11:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by An Unhappy Yahoo User 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's Christmas,a vindictive gift is completely inappropriate.The spirit of the holiday should eliminate your gift all together.Give it to her on her birthday if you need a special occasion to be spiteful.
2006-10-03 11:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should have given her to begin with, nothing. it's like when you go to the bar and the selection is limited. you may end up hitting on a beast, and even worse, you may get shot down. that is real insult to injury. the next week, you are in the sack with a jewel, and you feel like a million bucks. this is how life goes. tee it up, and take a shot at another chick
2006-10-03 23:55:03 · answer #7 · answered by jbg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your gifts aren't appreciated then stop giving gifts and find someone who appreciates you. Maybe you are receiving this kind of response because subtleties are lost on you and you ignored previous hints that your attention and gifts were unwelcome.
2006-10-03 11:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by Miriam Z 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever been told the expression "fool me once, Shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me" ?
After the first gift you should have gotten the message - are you a dolt?
2006-10-03 11:47:26 · answer #9 · answered by roadrunner426440 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot answer with asking a question. Why is it necessary that you give her a gift at all?
2006-10-03 11:45:51 · answer #10 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋