i am sexually active n i've missed my period for last mth im 17 n i cant talk to my mom wat shud i do. if i am pregnant my bf iz saying he iz willin to do watever to look after me n "the baby" but im jus not ready for that im too young to be a mom n i hate the fact that abortion is like the only way im seeing out but iz there anyway i cud like lose the baby now with a pill. i no theres still a chance theres nothing wrong but just in case is there anyway i cud use a pill and let it remain a secret. n plz dont give me a site wit teenage pregnancy caz they dont help i just want to know if i cant get rid of my problem b4 it gets worst.
2006-10-03 04:36:07 · 8 answers · asked by **~dreamytoya~** 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hey i got sum great advice from you guys but im happy to say that im safe n i no longer hav to consider abortion n 4 those who may think thats all i wanted to do im not that kind of person but i guess i thought that was my only option n even if i was pregnant i dont think i wud hav gone throught wit any abortion but i got sum great advise n its good 2 no sum ppl actually cared that much. oh n i've made a big decision to kool of the sex thing caz i dont want a repeat of this. im greatful for all the help n love. returnind my love thanx a whole lot.
2006-10-03 07:45:55 · update #1
There is an after pill that you can get. Try going to planned parenthood and see if they have it. The only other option is find someone who really wants a baby and give the baby up for adoption.
2006-10-03 04:39:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its been a month a dont think theres a pill
the "morining after pill" only works within 24 hours i think (or is it 48, im not sure)
if you are pregnant you just have to choose
abortion, raise it, or give it up for adoption
either way i think you should tell your mom - im not very fond of my mother so i am the last to talk about mother-daughter relationnships,
but this is a big thing, and it would be nice to have someone with you to hold your hand through it all, cos even if boyfriend makes whatever promises, you mother will never desert you,
thats what family is for, its your plan b to fall back on when things dont work out the way you plan
2006-10-03 04:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by punkrockprincess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mistakes are a part of life. Talk to mom & tell her the truth. Then expect a lot of yelling and screaming and crying. Accept that. Then, when mom calms down, she will do what is needed to help you out. Personally, I don't believe in abortion, I would choose adoption if you decide you really can't handle a baby. But you need to be prepared for some depression afterwards.
First thing I would do if it were my 17 year old daughter, after screaming, would be to get her to a doctor...
2006-10-03 04:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have the baby and give it up for adoption that your best bet. There's no pill out there that you can take to get rid of the baby. When people make mistakes there isn't an easy way out of it, especially when another life is involved. Your just going to have to build some courage and do what you have to do. Your mom wont kill you, she'll be mad but she get over it.
2006-10-03 04:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what......you put yourself in this position! Maybe you should just grow up and take responsibility for your own actions! You might as well just go to an abortion clinic and have them do it....your going to be a murderer anyways. The way I see it is you have 2 choices......#1...Abortion........#2...Have it an give it up for adoption.....there are so many better ways than abortion!!!
I hope you think about this long and hard before you just hurt yourself.....Good Luck and God Bless!!!
2006-10-03 04:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by Amber R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you go to a clinic to have yourself tested, or simply buy an over the counter preg test.
Dont take pills or try hurting yourself in order to 'abort' the baby. If you are going to do that, at least do it the safest way and have it done.
2006-10-03 04:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need a pregnancy test! ASAP!! Second don't get an abortion, you will live the rest of your life with guilt knowing you killed an innocent child! If worse comes to worse your gonna have to talk to your mom. Believe me she will help you! Good Luck
2006-10-03 04:41:15 · answer #7 · answered by Tamika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the nearest planned parenthood ASAP! They can help and give you all the advice you need.
2006-10-03 04:40:46 · answer #8 · answered by curiouszoey01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋