im not being big headed or vein but i get alot of attention when i go out. i remember 1 nite i went out and i was getting so much attention. my boy friends bro was there. im always good when i go out and i dnt act differently. but he went back and told my man that i was getting alot of attention. maybe it could be that im so attractive and he doesnt believe that im a good girl and i wudnt cheat on him.i dnt know im a very committed person and i have never ever cheated on my boyfriends ive always bin the one that they cheat on. so what am i doing wrong help help help
2006-10-03 04:12:38 · 17 answers · asked by destiny1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're going with the WRONG guy!
2006-10-03 04:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, now, is the only reason the 98% of blacks and so many young people support Obama is because he is black. What makes you think that you have the patent on objecitivity... I am not a senior.. altho I guess being 46 is probably old to most of Obmanuts.. but I am quite capable of ,making up my mind. I do not like Obama, I don't trust him and more than anything I do not like having the media shove him down my throat.. but the deciding factor for me as to why I would not vote for him... was his 20 year association with tha racist church...many things can be overlooked.. not that. He is a liar if he says he didn't hear racist things. He is not my idea of the person who should lead this country.. the president is supposed to represent us all.... he will not.
2016-03-27 03:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your b/f what you have told us and keep telling him until he gets it in his mind that you are not interested in anyone else other than him! You shouldn't have to suffer for being attractive and your b/f should not be so insecure. Tell him you did nothing wrong and gave him no reason to believe that you're cheating. Just because you get attention, it does not mean you are more likely to cheat and he needs to understand this. Explain to him that if he does not learn how to trust you, the relationship will never work.
2006-10-03 04:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you are doing nothing wrong, if he can not see that you are a nice person and would never cheat on him than maybe he has a trust problem. The only thing you could do was to be as honest as possible with him and say that i would never cheat on you or anyone else. If he can not trust you than he has some serious problems.
2006-10-03 04:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by Doug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are acting on all the attention you receive, you are doing nothing wrong. By acting on the attention, I mean that, unless you are excessively flirting or doing something else, receiving attention because of who you are and what you look like, is flattering and nothing wrong. If your BF is insecure, he needs to address that and maybe he needs to know how. Maybe you should tell him and/or help him in that direction; ultimately, he has to deal with his own insecurities though.
2006-10-03 04:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by coolguy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you say you are the one that get cheated on. the reason why they cheat on you is because people like his brother going around putting mess in their head. making them think you isn't any good because men be around you . just let him know how you really feel about him. and if he can't still trust you, you need to move on because you will always have a problem with him. you don't need to be with no one that don't trust you.
2006-10-03 04:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if your beautiful who can blame you?? My ed-boyfriend used to be the same, always telling me I get too much attention, and well, yes I was enjoying it, but it doesn't mean I was gonna cheat on him. There is really nothing you can do about it, but constantly tell him you are faithful and wouldn't dare to think about cheating on him. He's just gonna have to take your word for it.
2006-10-03 04:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by Janine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lack education as indicated by your statement. Try returning to school to master the English language and sentence structure. Hopefully this will do the trick and change your boyfriend's way of thinking around 180 degrees.
2006-10-03 04:19:33 · answer #8 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you are satisfied with the relationship that you have with him and you wouldnt do anything to mess that up. tell him guys do notice you alot and pay lots of attention, but you dont respond to them. if he keeps feeling insecure, invite him out withyou so he can feel a little better and see first hand that you dont pay attention to other guys.
2006-10-03 04:27:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your man obviously doesn't trust you and if you havent given him a reason not to trust you, then there's something really wrong. You need to tell him that he has to either trust you or be up out of that relationship. A relationship needs to be built on trust and if he can't do that even if you havent given him any reason not to trust you, there's nowhere for that relationship to go.
2006-10-03 04:16:11 · answer #10 · answered by Annette J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying! Life goes on with or without him..If you are as true and faithful as you say you are, he will be the one lost in the end....good luck! Life is too short to waste time!
2006-10-03 04:39:16 · answer #11 · answered by Simple1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋