i dont know what to do
i live in a small studio with one twin bed and a sofa and my 2 dogs sleep there
i m soo confused cuz i dont know what to do
i stuck between so many things
please help
2006-10-03 04:09:59 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
honesty i dont want her to move in
she will take up too much space
and my dogs dont like her
2006-10-03 04:14:10 · update #1
all i can say is ur an @$$hole. if your gf was smart she'd dumb ur @$$ move back in with her family...im sure they'd take her cause unlike a sorry peice of **** like you they love her and then i hope she sues you for child support, and you will pay out the *** for it. as far as taking up to much space u have 2 dogs how much space do they take up? how can you be so incensitive to her at a time like this...and even if this is some sick joke of your to see how others will react will you got your answers, if not then you should be forced to live in a car for the rest of your life with no help or support from anything or anyone. How dare you! BE AN EFFING MAN!
2006-10-03 04:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by shellie11985 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, offer (dont tell her) to move in with you. Why you have not offered this already I am unsure. No matter how small the place, if you love her and want the kiddo, you will let her move in. Is she in a position that she cant go live with her parents, I mean how did she end up sleeping in the car to begin with. Fill in a few more answers and others as well as I could help a l;ittle more...
2006-10-03 04:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by geckocub69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let her move in. You should have thought about all the things that go along with having children before she got pregnant. Her health is going to come down to the baby's health. You need to make sure she is being taken care of. I mean she is going to be the mother of your child. And what do you plan on doing when the baby comes. Have your girlfriend and your baby sleep in the car. A baby takes up a lot more room than your girlfriend will.
2006-10-03 04:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by faybe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really have to ask what the solution is to this problem? What are you going to do let your baby sleep in the trunk when it is born? Come on. You and the dogs sleep in the car and let your pregnant girlfriend sleep in your bed.
You should have thought about all of these issues before you made a baby.
2006-10-03 04:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by Perri L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sincerely hope you aren't serious. If this is true, then I feel sorry for the girl and the baby. You aren't worth her time. Unfortunately if she's in a situation where she's sleeping in the car (is it your car or hers?), then it's up to you to be a man and take care of her while she's carrying your child. If you don't want her to live with you, that's fine, but make arrangements for her to life somewhere - and not another car. Grow up, be a man.
I wish she had asked the question instead of you. I'd have a lot more to say to her.
2006-10-03 04:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you and your girlfriend must be on crack. A decent man would not have his unborn child's mother sleeping outside in a car, while he is inside chilling with his two dogs. A decent young lady would not be sleeping in a car, especially since she got knocked up and still calling you bf.
So, you need to get a better job, a better place to live and go and get your gf out of the car.
2006-10-03 04:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what the **** is ur problem how dare you let her sleep in the car and how dare her accpet that **** what the hell are you thinking dogs are not more important then a person make them sleep on the floor or outside like it should be and u on the couch man are you really that ignorant or ur acting im sorry but thats just wrong do you have a good job? if so get a bigger apt BE A MAN ABOUT IT
2006-10-03 04:21:16 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should find another apartment or let her sleep on the twin bed and you sleep in the car, and put the dogs outside or something, cuz your gf is the most important and you should be the one sleeping in the car
2006-10-03 04:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by Pumpkin Nickel Bread 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she have a job???? Put your money together and get her a small studio where she can be and where she can bring the baby home to. You sound pretty sick to choose the dogs over the girl you got pregnant.
2006-10-03 04:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your attitude is the reason why abortion must never be illigal
you let her sleep in the car while she is carying your child
because she will take too much space & your dogs don't like her
are your dogs your lovers
in the first palce you should never have sleep with her
you did now take your responsibilities
2006-10-03 04:19:18 · answer #10 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋