I noticed that some of you say that not getting enough sex would be a reason to cheat on her, but why cheat cant you be honest and say I am going to leave before hand so not to hurt the wife/girlfriend Isnt honesty what it is all about. and how much is not enough sex??? this gets me concerned!!!
2006-10-03 03:58:30 · 9 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I believe that if you are un-happy then it is time to leave. Don't need to cheat, just leave. If you are trying to hurt them, then you are not doing yourself justice. If you want to just hurt them, then there are other ways to do that. But if you trully want more sex in a relationship and the other person won't commit, then it it time to leave and find someone else. What are you proving by cheating?
2006-10-03 05:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by lovermonkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who say that not getting enough sex is an acceptable reason to cheat are immoral. So, of course they would not tell the spouse beforehand -- these people want to keep getting a little sex with their spouses, and some extra sex with their lovers. You have nothing to be concerned about, if you find a mate with good values.
2006-10-03 04:03:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There"s no reason to cheat, theres always self help,But if you want to be with others to, at least be honest and talk about it so you both can agree on what to do saves a lot of hurt that way.
2006-10-03 04:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by a1_friend64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you should be concerned. People today do not take their vows seriously. They are just looking for any excuse to cheat. No matter what it is not ok to cheat. Not even under circumstances where you are not getting enough action.
2006-10-03 04:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by Jewells 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i could hit the line until now I cheated, yet I particularly have considered circumstances the place 2 people would be in a courting and abruptly between the persons in it stops being attracted to intercourse and that they say to the different man or woman "i'm no longer attracted to intercourse anymore, so which you're no longer getting any. cope with it." Screw that. the way I see it, questioning which you no longer could attempt to maintain your significant different or significant different happy because of the fact they're caught with you is a criminal offense 2nd basically to cheating on them, and absolutely everyone who thinks that way merits to be dumped.
2016-10-18 10:07:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband got enough sex, and still felt the need to cheat on me with my best friend. Yeah...
I think a lot of it was that he had liked her before she and I ever met (before me and my husband met), and she had finally become single. Because there was no personality there; she was an airhead, concerned only with her looks, had her priorities so messed up, you name it.
2006-10-03 04:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People or spouses do not cheat for sex alone, they are looking for something else, that's missing in there makeup,or how they are put together,and a felling, of utopia...which doesn't last, that's why, they do it more than once...i am a doctor, and physiologist
2006-10-03 04:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by bull 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men cheat because they can - it isn't always the lack of sex -it can be a combination of a lot of things & don't forget that there are so many women out there who are willing to sleep with a guy that has a g-friend or wife & they don't care - there is so much temptation out there - it could be a matter of being out and having too many drinks so their judgment slips - it can be alot of different factors - the inability to commit to one woman - i dont think it's always the lack of sex.
2006-10-03 04:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO NO NO THAT'S MY ANSWER
2006-10-03 04:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by robbie3839 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋