Will a guy end up calling you if you stop calling and texting him? They say things happen when you least expect it. So I am stressing about a certain guy. I have text him and left him a message and he will not reply to me. If I just stop will he call me eventually. If you can't say something nice about this than don't reply at all. Some people on this are so mean and don't care about anyones feelings at all. PUT YOUR SELF IN THE SITUATION AND SEE HOW IT FEELS!!!!!!! STOP BEING SO MEAN TO PEOPLE!!!!
2006-10-03 03:58:04 · 13 answers · asked by kjm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He does not call or return text, because he knows you will keep calling and texting. There is an internal need for guys to hunt and chase...when they feel the chase is over, they lose interest. When you keep calling, texting and chasing him, he sees the challenge as being over and is looking for a next challenge. Stop and he will either think he needs to start coming back after you or you will get nothing from him. If he does not start calling you and texting you, then he has no interest and you need to let him go. If he does start calling and getting back in touch with you, do not make it easy on him, it will make you look desperate and he will slip right back into the same pattern he is in right now. Keep the challenge there and maintain the mystery, it will do wonders...Good Luck...
2006-10-03 04:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the most part, after you have made two attempts to contact him you should wait on calling him again. In fact, you shouldn't purposely make yourself available to him if he doesn't return your call within a day. I know you want him to call, we have all been through similar situations but don't come across too needy that might push him away. Display confidence in yourself and remember men are replaceable.
2006-10-03 11:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by akiastatz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. Deal with reality. HE IS NOT GOING TO CALL.
The possibilities of him calling you are even less if you keep bugging him with constant calls or text messages. Stop calling him. Act cute and be friendly if you meet each other. But that's that.
Get some dignity. If he does not call you back, then screw him.
2006-10-03 11:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by Eclipse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to be mean or anything but, knowing guys like i do, he proabaly thinks your annoying. If you stop calling him, he may find relief, but if you continue to call him, then he will get annoyed with you. Just chill for a while on the calling and see what happens.
2006-10-03 11:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say just back off a little. Maybe he is being shy or playing hard to get but please don't let him think that you are sweating him. Just back off and don't call and text him and see what happens. If he doesn't call back than he may not be interested. Good luck
2006-10-03 11:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by mZgRoW*N*sExY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he finds the time or if he's feeling you, yes he will call back. Maybe he's busy or maybe this is his way of telling you that he is no longer interested. I would call once this week and once next week. If he doesn't answer or call me back, I would move on. Maybe he has found someone else.
2006-10-03 11:04:23 · answer #6 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that if the guy is interested he would have called sooner and if you are bugging him it may just be something that will make him run even faster. If he has showed interest in you and you have called every now and then that is fine, but just make sure that you show him the real you but don't be too clingy. good luck..
2006-10-03 11:02:25 · answer #7 · answered by kalynn h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont want to be mean, but if you are going to ask a question on here then you get ALL kinds of answers, and if you consider people telling you what you dont want to hear, mean then i'm sorry, but i think he wants you to leave him alone. perhaps he will call you, as soon as he sees that you arent trying , then he might.
2006-10-03 11:02:33 · answer #8 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax...if he's interested he will call you...but don't sit around and wait for it to happen and don't waste your breathe or time calling him. You don't want to come across as deperate do ya?
2006-10-03 11:02:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya i know how frustrating itis to wait..4 someone with whom u r so emotionaslly attched...but any ways u have to put ur self together and move on...as even if he does calls...u can face him only if u r strong so b strong..
2006-10-03 11:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋