What is the secret of true love?

Question

How to know the features

Answer 1

trust honesty and friendship

Answer 2

The secret is that, "True Love - finds you" and when you get that you will know it.

How you maintain true love, falling or being 'in love' with someone or just loving someone else, depends on other factors and even being 'in love' with someone can take several forms and have different depths.
It's certainly not unknown for someone to love two people at the same time and love them both for different reasons and to different degrees.
Any kind of loving relationship, wither you feel its true love, being in love, or just loving someone, requires a certain level of actions like, showing your true feelings and emotions, open honest communications, caring more about the other person than yourself, honesty and commitment to keep the relationship going and being totally faithful to each other.
As for the features of 'True Love' that can be harder to describe I would say, its more overwhelming than just falling in love, that's why people say, you will know it when you find true love.

Answer 3

The barrier to true love is an obstacle called the Ego.

What is conventionally called "love" is an ego strategy to avoid surrender. You are looking to someone to give you that which can only come to you in the state of surrender. The ego uses that person as a substitute to avoid having to surrender. The Spanish language is the most honest in this respect. It uses the same verb, te quiero, for "I love you" and "I want you." To the ego, loving and wanting are the same, whereas true love has no wanting in it, no desire to possess or for your partner to change. The ego singles someone out and makes them special. It uses that person to cover up the constant underlying feeling of discontent, of "not enough," of anger and hate, which are closely related. These are facets of an underlying deep seated feeling in human beings that is inseparable from the egoic state.

When the ego singles something out and says "I love" this or that, it’s an unconscious attempt to cover up or remove the deep-seated feelings that always accompany the ego: the discontent, the unhappiness, the sense of insufficiency that is so familiar. For a little while, the illusion actually works. Then inevitably, at some point, the person you singled out, or made special in your eyes, fails to function as a cover up for your pain, hate, discontent or unhappiness which all have their origin in that sense of insufficiency and incompleteness. Then, out comes the feeling that was covered up, and it gets projected onto the person that had been singled out and made special – who you thought would ultimately "save you." Suddenly love turns to hate. The ego doesn’t realize that the hatred is a projection of the universal pain that you feel inside. The ego believes that this person is causing the pain. It doesn’t realize that the pain is the universal feeling of not being connected with the deeper level of your being - not being at one with yourself.

So in summary the secret to true love is to dissolve your ego and wanting, accept and love the person without trying to change them and not using that person as a cover up for your own egotistical craving for 'more'.

Answer 4

Love comes in many forms, you can love your parents, etc., or love a Mate, the important issue is, is Love of Lust, Speaking for my self, my wife is my best friend, I love to just hang out with her. Some, mostly Men say women & men cannot be friends, he is just next in line. Your age can be a mager factor in this desition, until you have dated diferent individuals you can't say humans change with age,IE, what you like as a kid you probably will not kike as an Adult.
Then there is the diferance between Love & Sex, Humans rarley know the diferance, you can have sex with someone you don't nesessaraly love and vise/versa, Take a look at this article, it may not answer all your questions but mty give you some better insight : http://www.sinhalaya.com/friends/whatislove.htm

Answer 5

My hubby and I have been together for 18 years. We have mutual respect for each other, we trust each other explicitly, were both completely faithful to one another. We have NEVER had a fight. We learn compromise and communication. You know its true love when every action you do, you think about that significant other first before doing it, you can't wait to see them after working all day, even if you work together. Their the first thing you think about when you wake in the morning and the last thing you think about before falling asleep.

Answer 6

Communication Honesty Respect & Compromise.

Answer 7

This christmas i will celebriting 9 years together with my boyfriend.

I will not pretty things up, because it was hard..,

It takes a lot of compromise, assertiveness and trust, at the same time alot of faith and hope.

You will experience lows of the realtionship, but if you notice it before it gets worse then you can get through it.

Itsabout excepting who you are, and who your partner is... and knowning that they feel the same.

It takes a 100% hard work.

Answer 8

Do you want to know one of the factors typical Law of attractionproduct does not work for numerous individuals?Think about it like a diet plan. If you wish to drop weight and you strive to lose it

Answer 9

- true love will always wait there for u..
- near your lover, you will not be afraid of being yourself...
- no secret
- understand each other
- feel the same
- feel comfortable

Answer 10

Communication is the key

Answer 11

A sense of humour