Can you say how do react at that point and after.
2006-10-03 03:17:29 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he is my husband, i will give him a slap in his face and kick on the back of that ***** who dared to destroy a family. I will drag him to the court for settlement and goaway with my kids. If situation warrants, i may marry to another good gentleman. Because, i dont want to spoil my life for other person's mistake. I will never ever talk to the man in my entire life.
2006-10-03 08:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by G Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the moment of seeing it, I would say "I'll put the tea on, and we can talk about this"
then, after a chat, reasonable and with no anger or ill will, I would judge the situation, I can only act properly and do the right thing if I am not getting all emotional.
If he is truely sorry, I would maybe consider sticking around to see if he learns from his mistake, but one more mistake and i am gone!
If I am not sure as to his truth, I am out of there, it is his loss! Time to move on and find some new adventure!
2006-10-03 03:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by LoveReallyHurts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its your boyfriend you have to leave him. Even if u think youll end up getting back together show him that u dont need him and u can leave just as quick as him messing with another gurl. dont answer his calls. If you c him on a normal basis, say hello. If you ignore him, he'll know ur not over it, and u want him to know or think u moved on. after about 2 weeks and hes still trying to explain, listen to him. Then u decide what u want to do. loves a *****. People will tell u to leave but u may love him too much.
Now your husband. Kick his *** out for a while. Dont let that ruin ur marriage.BUT on the other hand. If u know hes not good for a change, then dont hurt urself. thats when its over
2006-10-03 03:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by Cutie R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would have to say that I would take a bat or a fryin pan or a lamp whatever inanimate object is around and try to put him in as much pain as possible then I would turn to her and say unless you wanna die I suggest you get the hell out. I never really blame athe woman if my man cheating on me because she didnt cheat on me he did and reguardless if he trully didnt want too he would not have. Its hard to believe "she made me do it" when hes raming her on the bed!
2006-10-03 03:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by ask me again 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be extremely hurt and have to go somewhere alone and go thru my grieving of what I did have .Im sure Id feel sick too! It would be very hard to go thru ! I know I would have to divorce and would be such a let down .I am a strong woman and would survive without him .But the hurt would take a couple of yrs to get over but I know it will go away.Time heals! Ive been down that road before.........
2006-10-03 03:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my reaction ...no point talking about it obviously we are done. Time to split the assets and move on. You cannot force someone to love you and if they are having an affair it is over period. There is no getting over an affair in spite of what others might tell you.
2006-10-03 03:38:20 · answer #6 · answered by oldmomma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if they swore they'd never do it again, and stuck to that. I don't think i'd ever be able to trust the other person completley. logically there is no reason to be with someone you couldnt trust.
also, if the husband was cheating in the first place, he would have had a problem (sexual, emotional whatever) with me. if a person cheats its a sign that they aren't supposed to be together.
2006-10-03 03:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by isildurs_babe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband knows that cheating is the only thing I will never forgive him for and he is out the door if he ever goes that far. Neither of us has ever cheated and we don't plan too. We have plenty of love making and are both content.
2006-10-03 04:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 00:28:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well after I beat him about the head and neck with a blunt object, I send him packing and change the locks. End of story.
2006-10-03 03:21:02 · answer #10 · answered by JerseyGypsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋