ok a week ago i was raped and it still hurts to talk about but i am trying to do it as much as possible so the pain eases.......... but ever since the rape my friend eddie has been really overprotective of me and he seems truely scared every time i leave my house. dont get me wrong I AM afraid to leave my house but i know i have to do it but he seems like he thinks people r going to jump me as soon as i walk out the door.
2006-10-03 03:01:51 · 4 answers · asked by GONE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well frist talk to him about it he sould be able to understand and second he is try to protect you nothing wrong in that just give him tabs on you up to the point where you feel comfertable. ok?
good luck with that :)
2006-10-04 09:34:17 · answer #1 · answered by Edwin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im really sorry to hear,but its also good to know that you have a positive view on life after that experience,I think its just normal that your will be protective on you,but just tell him that you want to have a normal life despite of what had happen and tell him that you will cope up with this bad experience with his help.So just ask him to treat your normally as if nothing happen and assure him that you will be more careful now.Try to learn some self defense,i think it will help to ease his worries......
2006-10-03 11:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am SO sorry to hear something horrible like that happened. However, it is very important that you try to live your life as normal as possible. If this friend of yours is that protective, maybe you need to tell him that even though you are afraid, it is important to YOU that you try to regain some normallacy again in your life, and you are doing it in a way you are comfortable with.
Hope it helps. :)
2006-10-03 10:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by tiggerluv252000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it happpen like this only friend..............but try to face the world ur friendor people say any thing dont care u go ur own way after few days more........... he himself will start coming slowly &talking to u.................I am giving this Ans as i am thinking of ur ques...........LOL
2006-10-03 10:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋