friends from High School and College on there. When he first joined I took it upon myself to invite maybe 3 or more girls on there for him just so they can be on there and he would have friends on his page. NOW, he has almost 300 friends with majority of them being women some with clothes on, some with not so much on this has caused conflict because even though he says that he doesn't conversate with most of them the fact that they exist on his page bothers me. He does have pics of me on his profile and his status does say married but I try to get him to understand that when people see how many females he has in his friends list they think well he's married BUT he has too many women on his page if he really is. Also, I know that he talks to some of them privately and he has told me that it's nothing sexually but he does this knowing how I feel. Does anyone have any advice as to how to handle this?
2006-10-03 03:00:50 · 5 answers · asked by bettyspagettii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You created the monster, now you have to talk to him about getting rid of his "girlfriends"
2006-10-03 03:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You talked him into joining myspace, you invited three or more girls and now you do not like what the results are? It sounds like you wanted to feel good about what you were doing in myspace and had him join, and now you do not like what you have started. My advice is to tell him exactly how it makes you feel and point blank ask him to get rid of all the females that he does not know personally or shut the site down completely. You will catch hell for it, because this was all your idea in the first place, but it is better to do it now than wait.
2006-10-03 10:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girlfriend, what were you thinking? all you can do now, is demand that he take his webpage down. if he is not cheating, its a strong possibility that he will if he keeps in contact with the women. that was a sweet gesture on your part, but most men can't handle that type of temptation. also, you might try wearing a lot of sexy attire and striking a few of the poses you have seen on myspace. i think men like it because the girls there are very seductive.
2006-10-03 10:11:54 · answer #3 · answered by Niecy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
by putting the three girls on there you were showing him it was okay too talk to girls on there so he probaly doesnt undeerstand why it is a problem for you so make a compromise and talk to him aboutt putting your picture on his pics in his prfile and remember he might be emailing them but he his at home with you and not them so dont worry
2006-10-03 10:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by aleym 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
speaking from experience put your foot down and stop it now or it will go farther . my husband did this to called it harmless until i found the emails.
2006-10-03 10:09:01 · answer #5 · answered by juliymarie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋