I have one child he is 7 months old and I feel deep inside that I really want another baby and it feels right to have another one how can I convince my husband for a nother one
2006-10-03 02:52:42 · 7 answers · asked by ? 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
You can't force him to have another baby. If he doesn't want another then be happy with the one you have and maybe later in the future he will change his mind. You must really have alot of time on your have to want another baby so soon as well...7 months...you already have enough to handle, give it some time.
Good Luck.
2006-10-03 02:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by makeitclap23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say take some time - it's only been 7 months. He'll probably come around later on. For now, enjoy every moment you can with your baby. Good luck to you! PS they recommened 2 to 5 years is a good time frame between babies. I know I'll be going for five. I want the first baby to be potty trained before having another baby lol
2006-10-03 10:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by Cookie On My Mind 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand exactly how you feel. I currently have 2 children--ages 3.5 and 2. I am ready for the next (and final) one and my husband isn't.
There is no compromise in this situation--one of you has to either make the sacrifice to wait or make the sacrifice to have a child before they feel ready.
Nothing bad comes of you waiting until he feels ready. It could damage your relationship if he caves just for you. You have to talk with each other and work out a better timeframe.
I had my kids pretty close together and it was a lot of work. I can't imagine having to do that with a husband who isn't ready.
Talk Talk Talk Talk to each other. You never know--he may come around to the idea.
2006-10-03 15:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by Cassandra K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hormones are getting the better of you..RELAX and enjoy this one first...I have 4 children the first two are 2 yrs apart and then between my first son and my second son..there are 9 yrs separating them and then almost 3 yrs between my 2nd son and my baby...(2 different marriages!)
You may WANT another baby right away...but give your husband some consideration~ take a year or 2 and enjoy your first baby..they grow up faster than you realize...you don't want to miss out on ANYTHING!!
2006-10-03 09:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he dont want to help you, I happen to know of a guy who would love to help you get pregnant.
2006-10-03 10:50:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get new husband..
2006-10-03 09:54:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
where do you live? lol!
2006-10-03 09:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋