I LOVE HIM ALOT BUT HE ALWAYS THINKS OF HIS FAMILY BEFORE HE THINKS OF US WHEN HE KICKED US OUT HE SAID SOME HURTFUL THINGS AND YES I SAID SOME TO BUT NOW WE ARE GETTING A DIVORCE AND I DONT THINK HE WANTS ONE AND I DONT WANT ONE BUT I DONT THINK HELL WANT ME BACK
2006-10-03 01:55:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
and you want him back....boy you are a jackass
2006-10-03 01:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by butterfly_kisses81501 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can speak from experience. If you are a true believer of God, what's yours is yours. And if i'ts meant for your God will bring him back to you. Let go and let God. I was told that sometime divorce is not all the time a bad thing. I know it's hard, trust me I do. People get re-married all the time. When you go to court, just asked the judge can he/she recommend marrigage counseling. Then that why you will have a mediator to help you all work things out. Right now the only thing you can do is pray and trust God. If you don't mind me recommending, read "The Power of a Praying Wife" by Stormie O'Martin. This will help you a lot. Me and my husband just recently divorced 2 months ago and I went through the same thing. Only he left, I didn't put him out. And I didn't feel he wanted a divorce either. But we did. Let him go, and let God. That's the best advice I can give. I will pass on a question my mother-in-law asked me? What does God love? We know he honors marriage, he don't like divorce. So if you trust and believe in him....he will work it out in his time not yours. Don't look at things from the natural eye...look with your spirit. Just pray, never stop praying. Get closer to God and he will work it out, if you believe.
2006-10-03 11:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by RLS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband kicked you and YOUR children out of the house and you want him back? How could you possibly want to be with someone who doesn't even care about his own children?? I don't blame you for saying some hurtful things when he kicked you out. Gosh, these are his children, right? How could he do such a thing?????? No man is worth sacrificing your integrity for.
2006-10-03 11:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder why he kicked u out? I dont suppose u did something wrong did you? I suggest you try and resolve what the issues were in first place and ask for a meeting to talk about them
2006-10-03 09:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by cleo_alter_ego 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all say hurtfull things to each other when we are mad one thing is to do that,and another is to kick you out with your children.
My advice to you is simple and believe me is worth it,don't put your self down by asking him to stay in the marriage,he should be asking you if he loves you believe me he will stop that divorce,if he don't he doesn't care and its best for you to go on,kicking someone out of the home to me is simbolic it means get the hell out of my life,you deserve better than that,do it for your dignity let him be the one who ask you to stay.. and if that do happend warn him never to ask you to leave the home and much less with your kids wht does that said of his love for you?? think about it you are a strong woman,men are intimidaded by women who have it together.good luck.
2006-10-03 09:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you want to get back with someone who kicked "his" kids out. He has shown you how much he wants you.
2006-10-03 08:58:48 · answer #6 · answered by stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are cute, meet someone else........ If not, move on anyway and get some hobbies to occupy your time.
2006-10-03 09:46:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you a doormat
show somre respect if not for you at least for your children
2006-10-03 11:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on!
2006-10-03 08:59:13 · answer #9 · answered by cute1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋