Our guest list does not have room for all our cousins, but we did invite some. So what do we with those not invited? Send them an announcement or just ignore it until they ask? By the way, my side of the family is Italian, so family is a big deal.
2006-10-03 01:53:27 · 10 answers · asked by Adam D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its not that we dont want them there, we cant afford to invite everyone. BIG family, and a lot of out of state people.
2006-10-03 02:56:37 · update #1
Send an annoucement. If they inquire just tell them your budget wouldn't allow inviting everyone you wanted to
2006-10-03 01:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah my husbands family is Lebanese and it was a very big deal. We decided to only invite the cousins that were in our age group. The ones that weren't invited we sent little announcement cards regarding the dance and they came after the meal. Everyone seemed fine with that. You have to draw a line somewhere. Good luck.
2006-10-03 01:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you invite them to a reception? If not, then announcements are supposed to be nice, but they'll still feel a bit rejected if others have been invited to a celebration and they have not. You ought to plan a barbecue or something so that they'll feel included. You know how funny family can be!!
2006-10-03 01:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is appropriate to send an announcement that the marriage took place. They have a new family member. They should know.
2006-10-03 01:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by just browsin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ha!...You're Italian and you left out some of your cousins? Mah-rone! You're running the risk of having your legs broken piasan.
Better send out the invites.
2006-10-03 03:28:12 · answer #5 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch if its a big deal invite them,
2006-10-03 02:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by cleo_alter_ego 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe explain there isn't enough room for everyone, Have a big reception so they all can come,
2006-10-03 01:57:01 · answer #7 · answered by mother of 7! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it all depends on the criteria that you chose the cousins that you do want to attend.
2006-10-03 01:56:36 · answer #8 · answered by stella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its your wedding, invite who you want, screw the rest
2006-10-03 01:56:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
send them an annoucement so you mite not annoy them to much if they are happy they will be please not annoyed just cause they cant go
2006-10-03 01:58:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋