the only time i can do that is when ive had a few drinks but i want to be able to do it with out drinking.
2006-10-03 01:52:01 · 13 answers · asked by destiny1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
next time you have a drink and feel brave enough to do it, remember to tell him you would like it to be that way when you are sober too, but can he start it off next time please
2006-10-06 12:51:45 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and look into yourself more and think about what you like and don't like. You maybe do like `freaky' things because somewhere inside you, you want to develop and come out of yourself. Think about what the `freaky' things are and why you like them. What do they tell you about you? You are as shy as you allow yourself to be, at the end of day. Explore your mind and your ideas and you will become less shy.
2006-10-03 01:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by twinkletoestheballerina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow being shy and freaky! well you sound fun,what you need to do is start a conversation where you can ask the guy and just agree to his wants then say yeah and i like,......the only thing the drinking is doing is blocking the true experience from you and just gives you balls to say what's on your mind..
2006-10-03 01:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever you get in the mood change your personality just go to freak mode and call yourself freaky jane or whatever your name may be and just keep in mind that freaky jane only comes out of the closet when she is doing her thing and wants to be freaky and spontaneous and when its over make freaky jane go back in the closet..trust me your partner will want to know what has gotten into you but just say its the new me
2006-10-03 04:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand totally how you feel, I think if my partner was a little more freaky then maybe I wouldn't have such a problem with being freaky sober.
2006-10-03 01:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by "tre-double" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be that way But I realized be yourself. do what you wanna do in the bedroom if you want to get freaky do it. tell the other person to lay back and take it or tell them what you want if you dont you will miss out just be yourself you will not regret it
2006-10-03 02:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by wilkinson_1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it if its ok after a few drinks then it will be ok sober.
If not maybe your partner is not the one for you.
2006-10-03 01:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by D900 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only answer, grab your balls and DO IT!!! Don't think about it to much, themore u think the less guts u'll have, jus tlike when u wanna go tlak to a guy/girl at a bar...
2006-10-03 01:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to speak up, tell your partner what you want, if its love he/she will accept!!!
2006-10-03 01:55:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what you call freaky?
2006-10-03 01:53:51 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋