he is a chef, and works long hours. I am not overweight by any means, I look after my self.
we do not fight but he just chills on the couch even on days off. so 7 days a week I go to bed on my own. what can I do besides the obvious intamate stuff. I would just like it if he came and laid down and chatted for a while. but he just stays out there watching telly.does any one have any light on this subject for me that I can use.
2006-10-03 01:43:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YOu cut the telly plug......cut the other telly plug...take phone off hook..take all beer out fridge..make dog sleep outside...ummmm......hide radio...........and when he goes to the plugs have an arrow saying go to bedroom and one on fridge... go to bedroom..... and your on the bed.......... painted in luminous bright green paint.. with an x to mark the spot
2006-10-03 02:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by cleo_alter_ego 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say Talk to him. The men I talk to all say hints don't work for guys. Ya gotta just come right out and say it. I'd try to find a time when he's not too into a show or too tired and just talk to him about it. I've always found that when something bothers me and I go to my honey about it, it has always been very quickly resolved! Good Luck!! I think things will work out fine for ya! :)
2006-10-03 08:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by Angel of Fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No idea im in the same situation. When you find out wanna let me know please,,,lol.....It sucks feeling this way i know. I m feeling the same way today also. Its like we dont even exsist sometimes right?? Do everything for them and dont even get a thank you or anything. Feel unappreciated...and **** i wprk long hours too,,come home ,,cook,,clean school work and all that,,but i dont get to just sit on my ass when i get home,,and watch tv, or sit on the dam pc. Let me know when you find out what to do ok..lol..thanks
2006-10-03 08:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes I do!Im a man and have lived this myself.My wife put up with it for 15yrs and got rid of me.I learned a lesson the hard way.Be open and tell him how you feel and what you need.men like comfort in a differnt way then women.some men really are dumb when it comes to this.talk to him about things he likes and so on.you must let him know what you need.If this dont work then start trying differnt things to open his eyes.
2006-10-03 08:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by porkchophaynes0206 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Recieve him with a welcom drink , make it a point to recieve him in a fresh body ( take shower ) before he arrives , wear a nice sexy nighty , maintain a spot less house , specially bathroom and bedroom . Give him a impression of joy to see him, with your ever charming smile
2006-10-03 08:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer to give him a massage. Afterwards, he may enjoy a conversation with you.
2006-10-03 17:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by delmaanna67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job that allows him to retire.
2006-10-03 08:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by cryptosexologist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find out how to get him to notice you with out being all sexy about it, please let me know! That's the ONLY tim emy man notices me
2006-10-03 08:48:05 · answer #8 · answered by mysticalfairygoddess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mmm No idea
2006-10-03 08:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by prabhan_a 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋