the one i love is my teacher.. i m 16, he may b frm25-30yrs. i m attracted towards him.... this may b not love.. should i teach my heart that dont do it or just naturally feel ... i m afraid to know the results.... dont think about marriagge. i m a science student , my carrier is most imp. i will marry only after 25.. for time being what to do???
2006-10-03 01:32:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Focus on a career. You are very young, and although you think you know your self....you really won't until you experience life a little more. You will be attracted to a lot of people in your life, and will have to learn that just because your attracted to a person doesn't mean that person is good for you, or that you need to act on that attraction. Nothing good can result from your attraction to this teacher. He could lose his job, you might be stigmatized, you could get derailed from your future plans. Enjoy this attraction for what it is....an attraction. Focus on learning more about you. There will be opportunities for the rest of your life to find someone, once you find yourself. Stay focused on school and a career, and then someday you will attract that person who you are supposed to be with once you truly know who you are and who they should be.
2006-10-03 01:38:46 · answer #1 · answered by Eric A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with being attracted, just keep it in the right forum. It would never work and cause you both issues. Its a natural feeling so dont condemne your self, learn what you are going thru and apply it to boys more around your age to understand what you like and not. Those are good plans about your future. A boy that likes you may ask you out and you may be attracted to him as well, just learn how to build friendships and to communicate with guys.
2006-10-03 08:52:07 · answer #2 · answered by kevin T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 16 love comes and goes like the weather. See it for what it is a high school crush and find someone your own age
2006-10-03 08:38:34 · answer #3 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...i think u should really2 stay away from him when u still hav d time... try to avoid of him being attracted to you too... n u gotta really2 stay away from him... its not healthy for both of you... if u guys ever will go to the next level, u guys will have so much consequences including facing wat ppl will say abt u guys, endangering his carreer n also endanger your reputation as a good normal girl, also reaction from ur parents n many more... I bet it will never go easy...
plus, you have much of the world ahead of you... so dun ever risk it!!!!
so. the point is,, just stay away from him before its too late... i kno its not gonna easy.. but its gonna be more difficult if its too late...
2006-10-03 08:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the teacher alone. Just because you feel this way doesn't mean that he would. If you tempt him you could cause him to lose his job.
2006-10-03 08:36:29 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a boyfriend your own age and fantasize about the teacher....remember, he can go to jail for a very long time if he does anything.
2006-10-03 08:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by Judy the Wench 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just have a student-teacher relationship. that is not love. it is infatuation. you will find the right one when you are ready. the relationship would have so many consequences it would probably ruin your life. and he would know that it would ruin his life too. he wouldn't do it anyway.
2006-10-03 08:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by Rabidactyl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just find somone else, you simple have a crush on a teacher, find something and someone else before you and that teacher be in trouble
2006-10-03 08:37:45 · answer #8 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep away from teacher, you could put his in jeopardy
2006-10-03 08:34:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone !
2006-10-03 08:51:08 · answer #10 · answered by Pretty Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋