2006-10-03 01:14:40 · 16 answers · asked by unquenchablethirst 2 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Yes!
Why not? Because you are 14 does not mean you do not understand love.
The problem with young love is that at 14 you are still changing into who you are. Seeing as they will be growing together there is a chance they will grow closer and not apart. 14 and 24 they will NOT be the same person. As long as they can stay focused on each other it could very well work.
Some do not ever find true love. If you can find it at 14 and make it last then all the better to them! :)
2006-10-03 01:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by FerymayGirl 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. I highly doubt that any of them are mature enough to decide who their true love is. Maybe a few 14 year old boys and girls have but I don't think any of them really have. They might just think that a person is there true love and then a week later they think some other person is their true love. It happens all the time.
2006-10-03 08:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by crazygranny72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While you might think you have found the one for you, it is simply not possible at age 14 to know this. You might end up together, but you just as likely might not. You need to take things slowly, not try to grow up too fast. You can enjoy a relationship at a 14-year-old level, and if the relationship grows as you do, that's great. You can worry about 'true love' much later - for now, just enjoy being 14! :)
2006-10-03 08:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by Noelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, although it isn't caused by maturity, to fall in love so easily this young would be caused by innocence.
You always hear people saying that their first love is the greatest. With that said I would feel that most fall for their first time around this age. So yes it is possible. Unfortunately I would feel sorry for the child to fall in love so young. It would prevent alot of wonderful other things from happening and the chances of a relationship working out and staying together would be extremely rare.
However my sister in law fell in love with my brother at age 16 and they are still married and have two kids together. Her family had to move because of work. My brother loved her and couldn't stand to see her go. He married her at age 18 and I believe she had just turned 17. She wasn't pregnant they didn't have to get married. They couldn't stay away from each other. True Love. They have been together for 19 years.
2006-10-03 08:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by galbee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely Not! At 14 a boy or a girl has no clue what true love is. At that age it is puppy love. I think that first feeling helps prepare you for the real thing later on in life.
2006-10-03 08:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The genuine lack of real experience leads me to believe that it is not much more beyond a puppy love or infatuation.
Also considering all the changes that occur from 13 to 18, I don;t think anything would last through those kinds of upheavals
2006-10-03 08:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True for the moment, yes
At 14, mature or not, you're not able to determine who you will love when you become more adult.
2006-10-03 08:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. no matter how mature parts of a 14 year old my "act" the fact cannont be changed that they havent been here long enough to experience much, though a little might feel like alot, its still not much. emulate who they want, they still need time to "grow" their own self.
2006-10-03 12:25:43 · answer #8 · answered by nodumgys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because at that age us 14 year olds only have crushes and i doubt that their true love will be found at that age
2006-10-03 08:31:22 · answer #9 · answered by :..: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very unusual. My sister and her husband started dating when they were 14. They never dated anyone else. They have been married for 36 years. So, it can be done.
2006-10-03 08:18:48 · answer #10 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋