please help me ! im wondering how can i get a guy to see me as a friend.its not like they see me as anything actually,im the shy girl so i dont usually talk...but i love having guy friends,i have a couple but they are my relatives.so what im wondering is,how do i get guys to see me as their friend,someone they have real conversations with?sory if this qustion is a little stupid, i just cant get my words rite.
2006-10-03 01:04:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
what i do is just begin talking to them, once they see that ur talking to them, theyll start talking back. But don't flirt b/c it will give them mixed signals. Be a girl but dont talk about girls stuff too much (they like to use their emagination a little to much, if u know what I mean)( and that dont help any). Try talking about life itself. If they talk about guys stuff, laugh (if its funny) but dont say anything (unless they ask for ur oppinion) it helps fit in better. I dont like girlfriends, I dont know if its me but they are to snaughty and they talk to much about people.
2006-10-03 01:11:09 · answer #1 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, go were guys are hanging and join in ,like basketball games and etc..,then once they notice u want to do what they like then they will start feeling like u are one the guys but u will have to stop being so shy,live alittle,talk alittle u feel me and things should kick off from there!
2006-10-03 01:11:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfeminize yourself, remove anything about you that reminds men that you're a woman. Never give any indication that they have a chance with you sexually and gradually some men would be able to accept you as a friend. For others it will never be possible.
2006-10-03 01:09:57 · answer #3 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is interaction. it come when u r open tour thoughts if some thing is going on and expressing ur self. this leads to a conversation then it leads to friendship.
Guys are met by accident not by want.
2006-10-03 01:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by V R G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to burst your bubble, but personally, I don't think men and women can be friends without one ending up liking the other.
Just be cool, and don't flirt with them. If they try to get fresh with you, just be straight with them that you're not interested.
2006-10-03 01:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by gipsy_queen99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some common ground. Something that you're both interested in. You will talk more if you know what you're talking about.
2006-10-03 01:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by space case 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself with a little unfeminine-ness, wear you heir down or in back in a hat, or wear baggy clothes and hoodies. don't wear a lot of makeup around them, it reminds them your a girl.
2006-10-03 01:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by Rabidactyl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to be friendly, i am shy as well, but i have alot of male friends.i don't really have female friend .just lean how to relate with them that;s all.
2006-10-03 01:16:18 · answer #8 · answered by bukky b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all depend on you..the way you look,talk and treating them,has to be friendly and be your self..good luck!
2006-10-03 01:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by Max 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be cool.. and try to be interested in their interests..
2006-10-03 01:08:30 · answer #10 · answered by sweetangel_theresa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋