Due to the fact you was kinda sorta seeing someone whom you did'nt really like tht much but ur boo was never really around at the time,then one day the woman met your boo and told all now your g/f is finished with you but you now realise thts the woman you love and want her back......is there any chance of you getting her back and if so wht will you have to do in order to do so?
2006-10-03 01:01:07 · 10 answers · asked by ninja740 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I always advise people to never trust a liar and a cheat. Since you can't even take responsibility for your own actions, you don't even deserve consideration from this woman. You will cheat and lie to her again, so hopefully she already knows that about you and will steer clear.
If you want to grow up and act like a responsible person and realize when you make a commitment to someone else, it means YOU KEEP THE COMMITMENT, you might have a chance at gaining the trust of a good partner. Otherwise you are always going to have this problem, cause you don't deserve better.
2006-10-03 01:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already made a serious tresspass on the relationship, and from someone who has been cheated on before I have to say that it is really hard to trust them again. You don't know if they will go out and do it again.
However, I did take that person back and we have been dating for a good 2 years past that. The thing is I had to decide for myself if I thought the relationship was worth the risk, was worth the time even, and I gave them one more shot simply because even though they did something horrible to me I still loved them.
You should confront her, tell her you think you did a SERIOUS error in judgement, and that you think that the relationship is worth it (if it's true) and that you really wish to try again. At that point, she will chose to give you a second chance or not, if she doesn't i'm sorry hopefully you won't do it again to another girlfriend. If she does give you another chance, congradulations and I wish you two the best of luck.
2006-10-03 01:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by kakumei_keahi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on how crazy you were wit your cheating. did you disrespect your girl, or mistreat her because of the other woman? if not, i would say... you have a chance of getting her back. send her flowers, take candy and flowers to her job. buy her jewelry... at that point all her girls will keep telling her.. you must really love her; and maybe she should give you another chance. it probably will work, if she still has feelings for you. hopefully, you did not destroy her feelings..also, be sure to tell her the other woman did not mean anything to you. actually, telling the other woman that in front of your boo, will really give you brownie points.. good luck!
2006-10-03 01:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by Niecy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chance's are slim to none but you need to talk with the girl you claim to love and strongly convience her that you were a jerk for cheating on her and that you are truely sorry and realized how much you loved her and need her in your life. let her know you will let her know every thing your doing to earn that trust back. If given that chance to mend things don't walk out of a room to make or take a phone call, don't act funny when on the computer like your hiding something anything you might be hiding from her or what ever let her know about it. as to show to her how much she means to you and how much you want her in your life.
2006-10-03 01:08:34 · answer #4 · answered by 4mika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've just learned a hard lesson. If you have someone who you want to keep in your life, treat them well. And that means don't cheat either!
Open your heart to her and tell her how you feel. Tell her you'll give her time and be a GOOD BF to her. Maybe she'll give it another chance, but don't make the mistake again.. Make sure you are READY to date just one person, otherwise you'll just cheat again.
Good luck!
2006-10-03 01:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by LittleBitOfSugar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to get your brain out of your pants and learn a valuable lesson. Cheating on someone you care for is stupid, thoughtless and mean. Look what you got for it.
2006-10-03 01:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the girl back -- i mean the other one you dated :) Man, it's a universal rule -- cheating always gives you the boos -- we all know that in school.
2006-10-03 01:14:13 · answer #7 · answered by tagaCEBU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say Out the door with you Jack! No one likes to be in the pickens.
2006-10-03 01:04:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes dumb she'l get back with u but if she's a wise a-ss she'll keep far away from trouble-you
2006-10-03 01:08:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start grovelling
2006-10-03 01:02:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋