what are the resolving of the divorce?
2006-10-03 00:59:53 · 4 answers · asked by clieve 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Government
I don't think divorce is necessarily bad. Some marriages outlive the relationship. In that case, divorce is the best solution.
Marriage is a formalization of a romantic relationship. It defines the roles and responsibilities of the couple, especially when it comes to kids. If the relationship isn't there anymore, then sometimes it is better to move on than be unhappy the rest of your life.
That said, the best way to keep a marriage strong is to refresh the emotional ties in the relationship. You have to both have the same goals and expectations for the relationship. This means that you have to keep clear lines of communication open. It also means spending some time doing things for the other person. A spouse should be a friend first. Just like with friends, you don't always agree with them, but there is a tie that keeps you together.
Also, you have to remember that when two people get together, they become three, not one. You are a couple, and you have your own individual identities. It is important to reserve some of your independence and allow your spouse theirs. People can get too claustrophobic in a relationship if one person asserts too much control over the other.
2006-10-03 01:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by nondescript 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know whether you're boy or not
but i can only say this much
listen to everything a woman says but it's not necessary to solve everything for her because all she needs is for you to listen to her,
show her that you care by giving her small surprises such as gifts(like a scented flower or a brooch or small necklaces or pretty ribbon or teady's..all cute u know), early in the morning or when least expected...
you know what i mean..
anyways..stick to "understanding, honesty and respect"...you'll have all the love you want..
and also make sure you know how to love before being asked to be loved back...got it?
2006-10-03 01:11:01 · answer #2 · answered by --[[S.W]]-- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The family that prays together, stays together.
I would recommend talking to a pastor or priest if you are having problems.
2006-10-03 01:19:04 · answer #3 · answered by Aegis of Freedom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married 25 years....trust me there is no forgiveness from a woman...and they never forget..every little detail is kept for future reference..now if she did you wrong short of adultery or bankruptcies and you love her just go have a dinner and a movie.
2006-10-03 01:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by dstr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋