He's just not that into you. Learn body language early...it will save heartbreak in the future.
2006-10-03 01:02:30
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answer #1
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answered by Laurie G 2
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The "eye glance" behavior used as a sole indicator of whether someone is lying or not is provenly false -- it's an urban legend.
Experienced interrogators place a great deal more weight on a combination of signs to determine when a person is telling the truth or lying, such as:
* Body language
* Things both said and not said by the suspect.
* Changes in behavior and/or speaking voice.
* Attitude shifts when certain topics come up.
You need a multiplicity of signs, used together, to assess correctly whether or not someone is probably lying. Depending on just one of these (especially one so vague as an eye glance, which can happen for many reasons) will only lead to error.
How do I know this? I just read the book on it 2-3 weeks ago by an experienced professional interrogator. See reference below.
It's easily the best, most sensible instruction I have seen on the topic of discerning falsehood. Walters gives all the "clues" their proper due, and relies on a combination of them to help him make his judgments.
(And he expresses chagrin when some "old school" uneducated cops use the eye glance method as the sole determination of whether someone is lying.)
So, getting back to your specific topic, I would be less worried about what direction the man glances when talking to the woman [unless, of course, he's glancing at another woman :) ], and more about:
* His tone of voice.
* Any shifts from his "normal" behavior, if you have past experience with him -- or abrupt changes in behavior as he talks.
* What topics he describes in detail and what topics he is "vague" about or seems to shy away from.
* How much "flex" he gives himself in the conversation (i.e., "Well, most of the time I do [whatever]..." The phrase "most of the time" and phrases like it are uttered to sound like he's saying something solid, but actually allow a lot of "wriggle room" if he wants to change his answer later -- it's a loophole.
* His body language, any nervous tics/activity (fiddling with chin and neck or pen, or whatever, crossing and uncrossing legs a lot).
* How much eye contact he does make with you.
Since some of these signs have multiple meanings, you need to piece a bunch of them together to discern the most probable reason.
2006-10-03 03:24:22
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answered by Jennywocky 6
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i believe right means they are recalling memories and left is the creative side, but everybody is different and don't trust this theory, trust yourself and try to understand what the person says and what the person does and this will give you more then the glance of the eye. if you are true then you will look past the lies and be there no matter what, but don't let anybody hurt you or walk over you. respect needs to be both given and received, so don't be deceived, be there for them cause maybe the lies are a sign of something deeper going on, that they don't know how to say.
2006-10-03 01:10:25
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answered by Anonymous
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When a person looks up and to the right that person is assessing his data section of his brain, basically telling you the thrut. When that person looks at the left side and up that person is assessing his left side of his brain which is the creative side, another words he was looking for a lie. EFIL
2006-10-03 01:03:16
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answered by Anonymous
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Dont know, But I do know if he looks left while talking too you, HES LYING!!!!!.
This is due to the fact that the left side of you brain controls the( terms you will understand) lying part of the brain. Its true, ask a phsycologist.
2006-10-03 01:30:05
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answer #5
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answered by starie eyes 1
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the man is right-handed . so he is more eager to know the specifics and the abilities of the left side of your body . do you know why the left boob mostly is bigger than the other one?! the answer is same : most of men are right-handed! enough??
2006-10-03 01:16:14
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answered by Anonymous
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Maybe you are not fully interested at the moment. You may change the topics in conversation or go to find out what he intended to do.
2006-10-03 01:51:42
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answered by JAMES 4
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It could mean that he, like me, has a visual field deficit, and can only see your entire face, or is only able to focus on an individual detail of your face (i.e. eyes) by turning his head and utilizing his peripheral vision to do so. I lost my left peripheral vision to a brain tumor, which leaves me always turning my head and eyes left to see straight in front of me.
2006-10-03 01:14:40
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answered by Robster01 3
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I'm led to believe it means you are using your brain to recall information..weather it be fictional or fact it is something you have heard or spoken about on a previous occasion
2006-10-03 01:04:58
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answered by Bradley S 1
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that's referred to as desirous to be a dominatrix. It skill you're slightly sadistic. Or extremely sadistic. you like to dominate your husband and with the help of making him girly, humiliate him. those are extremely sadistic inclinations. you may seek for advice out of your husband first earlier doing such stuff, reason he won't be masochistic.
2016-10-01 21:24:16
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answered by ? 4
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