okay this is the thing ...today was my friend's birthday and i surprised her with a beautifully homemade B-day card with glitters and beautiful drawing and my other friend brought her a box with a necklace and earrings in it she thanked her and gave her a kiss while she didnt even look to my face !!
Secondly she always behave too obnoxiously and she seems to be a big HYPOCRITE how can i tell her to behave good with me in such a way that it is not too direct cause she buggs me way too much
2006-10-03 00:58:09 · 10 answers · asked by Dina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell her how you feel
2006-10-03 01:00:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's obvious she doesn't appreciate a true friend or a genuinely giving person. It's easy to buy someone a "thing" without much thought or effort. It's very special and thoughtful when someone makes you something from the heart with their hard work and talent. Maybe you shouldn't worry too much about being direct with her and just tell her when she's being thoughtless or unfair. Maybe you deserve a better friend and should look around for people more like you, that are loving and would appreciate you for it.
2006-10-03 01:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by Justin W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how is that being a hypocrite? she hugged her friend for getting her a nice gift. You gave her paper with glitter on it. The girl obviously is very materialistic and would rather have had the jewelry. Just ask yourself if you really want a friend like that. If the answer is no- distance yourself.
2006-10-03 01:00:36 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only Allah (swt) is conscious who's a hypocrite and who isn't. He is conscious what's in our hearts. also, its no longer our pastime to judge one yet another on that, only recommend. How can someone who calls others hypocrites be so confident that he's loose from hypocrisy himself? Salaams
2016-11-26 00:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She liked the other girl's gift better. I'm sure you put a lot of time & thought into the card you made her, but she either doesn't understand that, or doesn't care. Why stay friends with her if she's so obnoxious?
2006-10-03 01:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be friends with someone who doesn't respect your friendship?
The best gifts are those that come from the heart - and obviously she's a superficial person if she can't see which is the better present.
Dump her, and be friends with someone who understands and appreciates what real friendship is.
2006-10-03 01:33:32 · answer #6 · answered by gipsy_queen99 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't add up. Why would you put so much effort into pleasing someone who bugs you and whom you think is a hypocrite? I wonder if you're not letting your emotions color this. Maybe you should not put so much importance on how your friend recieves your gift and be happy that they give you their friendship.
2006-10-03 01:17:09 · answer #7 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she is your child, why do you need to tell her how to behave w/ you? Seems to me that if she was indeed your "friend" no matter what you do (wether big or small) for her is appreciative!
2006-10-03 01:04:15 · answer #8 · answered by yelorivr 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't try so hard to be her friend. She didn't appreciate the handmade card she wanted the bling.
2006-10-03 01:02:29 · answer #9 · answered by space case 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not just ditch her and find a decent person to be friends with?
2006-10-03 01:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by sweets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋