im doing my 2nd year in coll. my friends come to me 1ly when they need help and they leave me after their work is over they don't even care about me. what should i do with these people should i help them or not. how should i react to such people. is it same with others or 1ly to me its like this? tell me a good suggestion plz.. thanks.
2006-10-03 00:16:36 · 14 answers · asked by queen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Continue to help any1 who comes to u. Its a good act. If u will reject them n go to them only wen u need help, then wat wiil be the difference between u n them? Ur kindness is ur virtue n their selfishness is their defect.... Up to u to decide whether u wanr virtue or defect...
2006-10-03 00:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by Lovlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend just like u going out of the way sometimes to help others. I would suggest u to help anyone u can without going out of the way and expecting anything in return not even friendship. Soon people around u will notice that u dont need them and this may change their attitute for u. Ur kindness is ur strength and u shall not leave ur strength for anyone.
2006-10-04 05:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by Believer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hai,
I can understand your problem.
Some people will be like u said.
They always think of what they want they will never think of others.
If they ask ur help that you can do easily u do it if not u dont.
Search for good friends and maintain good contacts with them.
If u r having good friendship when ever u got a problem u can go to them . U can always share ur feelings with them
A friend in need is a friend in deed
An old proverb
2006-10-03 07:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by sridevi k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't sound like very good friends! They are only using you. Tell them you are too busy to help them any more. And try befriending people who are just as intelligent as you, and appreciate you for who you are not what you are able to do for them. You sound also very kind and giving, - you deserve to be treated the same way.
2006-10-03 07:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by ang_172 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And answer is , try to be humorous and little bit talkative also . Do start reading and memorizing some jokes and when ever you open your mouth crack a joke , within no time you will surprise that every one wants to be around you . Try this small suggestion.
2006-10-03 07:24:00 · answer #5 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U also be like them,who r real be good with them and who r all bad be like them to them
2006-10-03 07:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by Sekhar K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, dont deal with them for they are not 'friends'. Shrug them off subtly by telling them you dont know how to do whatever it is they want.
2006-10-03 07:23:42 · answer #7 · answered by Dabidu 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Used.....
2006-10-03 07:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
they r not ur friends and they r using u
U shud make that clear to them
2006-10-03 07:52:02 · answer #9 · answered by tootooshdgr8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true friends help each other no matter what. just tell them that you are busy.
2006-10-03 07:23:17 · answer #10 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋