we've been having problems and i just don't know how to approach the conversation
2006-10-03 00:11:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
The same way you did the first two times...... just tell him
2006-10-03 00:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by who me? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A child will not fix the problems and will only make things worse. Either way it's going to come down to getting separated. You should do this now when you are still able to move out or move him out without having a new born around.
Also 2 children is far more then enough, if you're not sure about having a third one then don't.
Good Luck.
2006-10-03 00:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by Gary Bucht 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing I must say "same father"
damn tell him "we're using condoms" Or go get an IUD don't tell him Get Depoproviarin (spelling ??) shots DONT TELL dont know your age but isnt 3 enough.....this country has a problem as it is becoming over population where will we all go.....we will cur every tree down to make room then die because we wont be able to breath.......after this one YOU take CONTROL you do something because hes not man enough
2006-10-03 00:49:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Problems or not, he's just added another responsibility to his plate.
Depending on what you mean as "problems", simply tell him. What happens between you two doesn't change the fact that you are this child's parents. But if he's violent with you, I suggest you take your other children and yourself out of harms way and not bother telling him.
2006-10-03 00:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he has seen between your spread legs before. at least 3 times, right?
what is there to say but medicare/welfare?
any condoms or birth control in the third world country that you must live in?
conversation is over and the copulation is over until the next time.
please get some local help for you and kids and not him.
cheers
2006-10-03 00:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by getit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and tell him. If you both know he is the father he should accept the responsibility, after all he had to participate in the making of this baby.
2006-10-03 00:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by chumbuggy44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about protection? Time to put the BS aside and have a neccessary talk.
2006-10-03 00:20:03 · answer #7 · answered by Captain Trips 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him if he don't like it give him the flick he liked making babies he should like caring for them.
It not your fault men can get fixed to prevent pregnancy.
2006-10-03 01:32:10 · answer #8 · answered by jo_talker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're about to give birth to your 3rd bastard child from the same father I don't he'll be suprised no matter how you tell him. Personally I'd suggest you write it in your suicide note, as you seem to be unable to utilize birth control you should do something more effective to stop cranking out babies without the means to support them. Seriously considder getting fixed.
2006-10-03 00:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by W0LF 5 · 1⤊ 5⤋
well thats difficult but it is very neccessary to sit and talk to him
2006-10-03 05:25:40 · answer #10 · answered by tay_jen1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋