how do u advise a teenage girl on sex before marriage without making her feel unconfortable?

Answer 1

Tell her that her purity is a beautiful and precious gift that she should save for her husband.

Tell her, and this is true, that if both partners never had sex prior to marriage there are 80+% FEWER divorces than couples who has premarital sex.

Tell her there are over 50 sexually transmitted diseases (STD) very common among teens and preteens today. Most STDs have no symptoms, most have no cures, some can cause cancer, some can kill your baby if your doctor doesn't know you have them, most STDs cause lifelong damage and can be caught from ANY sexual contact.

Tell her it is a lie that condoms (even latex) will protect her. If the AIDs virus was the size of a pea then the pores in the condom in relation to them would be the size of a hole in a chain link fence.

Tell her she is valuable, and not to take her womanhood lightly, that anyone who really loves her will not ask her to "prove" her love for him and anyone who really loves her will be willing to keep his hands to himself and respect her, body, soul and mind.

Tell her that she has a choice to be a run of the mill regular person, doing what everyone else tells her, being just ordinary, part of the crowd - or she can choose to be intelligent, motivated, mysterious, a woman with goals, strength, selfrespect and a future of a wonderful marriage not marred and scarred by all the previous sexual / emotional encounters the world tells her she needs for "experience".

Tell her she can be mature - stay pure for marriage - or live in the terrible twos forever, gratifing every urge.

Tell her God has blessed her with many gifts, and not to throw them in the garbage.

Tell her - rebel against the world and stay pure for marriage.

Print this and let her read it - it is the opinion of someone who is not her parent and has made many bad choices and is now paying dearly for not doing the above.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

That is a hard thing to do. First, its best to be open and honest. Don't be condescending, and judgmental. Teenagers, respond well to someone who treats them as an adult, and respects them as someone they care about. Value what they say, and don't be shocked at anything they reveal. Approach sex as a natural, and good part of life. As to sex before marriage, I would bring up the responsibility aspect of sex. Ask her if she is ready to have a child?? (Even with the most effective form of Birth control, there is a chance that she could get pregnant.) The second thing I would bring up is STD. Is she ready to deal with a dishonest partner? What about a guy who is only interested in sex. Teens don't often think about cause and effect. They don't realize that one thing they do can affect the rest of their life.

Answer 4

positioned out your hand and smile, or bow respectively depending the position you're and the given way of existence there, and introduce your self. you should have a elementary a million minute repetoire practice about your self, what you're about on the perfect minimum, in simple terms as you should in networking for a job (in elementary words diverse information for sure). also, clone of even as attending social applications/activities the position there is fairly some mingling to be performed, earlier attending you have to be taking under consideration present day activities that you'll be able to make smalltalk about. 5 matters that you'll be able to convey with you as verbal change breakers is a good advice.

Answer 5

I have been talking to my children about sex since they started asking questions at about the age of 4 years old.
There is no way of feeling uncomfortable when they turn into teenagers, they think they know it all.
You should start out "do you have any questions?" and let it go from there.
Hope this helps & Good luck.

Answer 6

You can't. But you can make it a little easier by starting with general comments and getting more personal slowly. Start with mentioning a character on TV and how her behavior might make a difference in her life. Like "do you think that character will be sorry that she slept with him next month if they are no longer dating.?" Or " I didn't see a condom, Do you think she could get pregnant or sick?" And go on from there. Good luck.

Answer 7

First of all: be honest, be prepared to answer any question and be prepared to be surprised: I would expect your teenage girl to know a lot more about sex than you thought she would! And - by the way - why is a teenage girl marrying?!

Answer 8

Don't be uncomfortable yourself.

She already knows everything you are going to say before you say it, the only uncomfortable part is the fact that you are saying it.

She still needs you to say it however, so don't let her prior knowledge stand in your way. Just practice a few times in the mirror, and be prepared for questions that you don't want to answer.

Answer 9

I don't think it's possible to have a sex talk and she be comfortable with the conversation, just face the fact that some teenagers may feel embarassed talking to their mothers about such an intimate subject. =)

Answer 10

first of all,try to break the ice between the 2 of u,then talk to her in complete honesty and in her language vocabulary she understands,or buy an educational sex movie about how to perform safe sex without the transmission of diseases and let her watch it.