Oh, I am so hurt and upset I don't know what to do. My bestest best buddy Sally doesn't want to be my friend no more. And we've been tight since kindergarden, I don't know why she doesn't like me anymore.
It began last week when I was at a music store. I saw Sally but she didn't see me, she was with another friend called Akira. I overheard their conversation:
Sally: "You know Akira, I don't think I want to be friends with that outofbounds no more."
Akira: "But he's your best bud since childhood! I though you guys were tight!"
Sally: "Yeah, but I want something more. (stares with a goofy grin on face) I've got to tell him I don't want to be just pals."
When she met with me a few hours ago with a box of chocolates and wearing her familiar smile, I told her if she didn't want to be my bud, I didn't want to be one either and ran like crazy home.
I don't know what to do! I bet she hates me. :( I'm so angry with myself. Can someone please tell me what to do to get her back?
2006-10-02 23:31:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ok! You seem to have missed the point. She wants to be more than pals - meaning, she likes you more than as a friend. She wants to go to the next level with you.
You owe her a BIG apology. Flowers, chocolates, and the mushiest card you can find might just do the trick. And tell her that you misunderstood what she said, and beg her to forgive you.
2006-10-03 01:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by gipsy_queen99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude u KNOW u made up this question. It's NOT true!
But I'll succumb to your imprudent question, and advice you to:
1) Hit her in the face next time she comes over to you
2) Tell her that you found a new best friend and that you dont need her
3) Hit her in the face again.
2006-10-03 06:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by A.B. Dobe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should throw a temper tantrum, head-butt a bottle of mustard across the room, flush your underwear down the toilet and purposefully run as hard as you can into the nearest telephone pole. If that doesn't get her back then i gaurantee NOTHING will. =)
Good luck.
2006-10-03 06:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by Shadowstorm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wanted to be more than friends to you. The best relationships begin in friendship. Tell her how you were feeling and apologize for your actions. There is a good chance she will want you back in her life. Good luck *smiles*
2006-10-03 06:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by dxle 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me like you may have picked it up wrong, are you sure she didnt mean she had deeper feelings for you and it sounds like you have the same for her! its time to talk things out like adults, you obviously know each other well enough to do so. ring her up right now and tell her you have to talk, tell her what you heard and she will explain. you dont just fall out with someone for no reason...
2006-10-03 06:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by butterflykisses.ie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wat have u done, u shud hv been more patient and c it for urself, whether sshe is just faking with that frnd of hers or she reaaly wants to break off, common, go and hv a peaceful talk with her sit down and tell her wat u hv heard, tell her that hse means a lot to u and u were hurt, i m sure she has nothing in her mind and u will make up, all the best
2006-10-03 06:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by hmmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to not look so desperate , more desperate you'll behave more full of importance she would be , you have to show to her you can move on with or without her , to show to her you aren't a wimp , and you'll see how instantly her arrogance will get down and will come to you by herself.
2006-10-03 06:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by Paul Alexandru Cazacliu 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think u shud have let her talk first n know wat she actually wanted to say. Now I guess the only thing to do is to call her and say sorry n propose for a face to face chat. Good Luck
2006-10-03 06:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by Lovlyn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You dumba-s-s She wanted to be your girl. Call her try to explain to her that you misunderstood. Maybe she will not think you are a jerk.
2006-10-03 06:37:14 · answer #9 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-10-03 06:33:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋