2006-10-02 22:59:35 · 14 answers · asked by Deedeeyahoo 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I am being honest here it's hard and it's because of all the negative things that you see and hear every single day.
Start off by NOT watching the news... This is to only be a temporary thing. But, it is a major crutch to get you thinking better. Then make a list of all the positive things that you have in your life. Your family, friends, home, car, food, etc. and they are positive because there are many in this world that don't have any of that.
Soon you will be on the positive side feeling better about your life .
:o)
Jerry
2006-10-02 23:16:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for improving self confidence take a deep breath and just do the work which you are doing without thinking what will happen...always think what you are doing is right and dont think about things like what will happen if the thing im doing is gonna go wrong self confidence can only be improved by strong willingness and i hope you will do that...as far as changing the nagative view of life take a walk early in the morning in a park see lil children playing smell of the fresh flowers walk on the green grass and whenever nagative thoughts start to pop up in your mind divert your mind to other things like tv video games or take a walk in a park and all that..and remember you can only improve these both things if you really want it to(i mean your willingness to improve your self confidence and nagative view to life)
2006-10-02 23:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by cool k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money earned honestly. Otherwise you shouldn't have self-confidence.
To change a negative view on life, look at everything upside down until it's funny.
2006-10-02 23:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice random acts of kindness to strangers' I do, I firmly believe that it comes back to you, I lost my cool "British Army knife" (that I sent to England for), and my cool "Ray Ban" Mirrored Aviator shades for a week, I found a wallet in the street with lots of money in it, I went to the house with the address in the wallet, and nobody was home, I left a note "I found your wallet" and left it in the front door mail slot, I never heard anything more. I opened my trunk the next day, and found my knife and shades, I know that I looked in the trunk 35 times for it previously ! WHOOOMP, THERE IT IS !
WHY ? Because, I did the RIGHT THING ! You can NEVER GO WRONG, by doing the right thing !
2006-10-02 23:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look on the bright side. instead of thinking what bad thing would happen next, the of the good things. this will improve self confidence. if not find the cause and do somthing to it.
2006-10-02 23:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Download emule software then search for self confidence u will get a great free ebooks on that subject there
2006-10-02 23:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by nisreenh1978 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes practice to see the positive side of life but is possible and not all that difficult. Watch and listen to positive people in your life. Talk to them about their views. They are your teachers.
2006-10-02 23:02:37 · answer #7 · answered by farahwonderland2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think positive and have faith in yourself. When dealing with self doubts, look around you , see some of the fools that surround you and tell yourself I am good, I am great, I am my very best mate."
2006-10-02 23:18:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its so simple.
It has three steps.
1. understanding yourself:-
put urself in some problems and find out how you react to them
2. read some books like you can win , stephen covey...
3. put those thoughts in ur day - to -day. u will find the difference. after feeling start preaching it to others as i do
2006-10-02 23:12:31 · answer #9 · answered by avisar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would also like to know that i am very depressed mainly because of the drugs i am forced to take. I onistly dont know
Also dont get mad i have a queston to this is somewhat simular
your life is probly much better then mine.
>>>> http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AjN8bGaYzHQ_1Uj3Bqr7AXoezKIX?qid=20061003025416AAJY5eV
2006-10-02 23:03:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋