my best friend has just decided not that long ago that shes a bi-sexual but know shes told me she likes me more than a friend and wants more than friendship ive knownher all my lifeand i told her my feelings towards it (im straight) but shes just going to far with it (Flirting wiv me) and dont want to loose her as a friend i thought she was happy as she told me she was know that she is engaged to her girl friend but she keeps saying how shed rather be with me i realy dont no what to do i need help BIG time on this PLEASE i dont want to hurt her i realy dont shes my best friend and i love her as a friend yeah i use to be able to talk to her about everything and anything and well know its just awquad.
2006-10-02 22:36:27 · 6 answers · asked by Karen J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have the same problem with my best friend, situation is just a bit different, we used to date, then broke up and became really good friends, she then got a gf but constantly tells me she would rather be back with me....
eventually i got really fed up with this so i just sat her down and told her that i really loved her as a friend and that if she valued our friendship she would just accept us as being nothing but friends, cause if she carried on like she was then we would have to end our friendship....
it sort of worked for me....
2006-10-02 23:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by Wendz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should sit down with her, and just be honest. Tell her that you don't now, or ever will, have the same sort of feelings towards her that she has towards you. Tell her that your relationship is purely platonic, and will always remain so. Ask her to respect this, and I'm sure (though it will be hard for her) she will.
2006-10-03 05:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by slim1234 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geez. talk about drama... i think you two need to talk. tell her everything you wanted to tell her and just be honest with her. you should keep the friendship if you really value her. i came from an exclusive school for girls and i've seen (and experienced) this kind of drama...
2006-10-03 05:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by DruNkStripPeR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u can't accept her love for u, then do not force yourself as it may cause more problems in the future.........talk to her nicely.....she must respect your choice if she's really your friend.....i know she'll be broken hearted but it's better to be like that than cheating one another......it'll hurt more......tell her that someday, she'll find a suitable one.......
2006-10-03 06:02:55 · answer #4 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that it is awkward to be around her now that she hits on you and stuff. You have to put it in black and white and if she still persists, I wouldn't spend much time if any with her...
2006-10-03 05:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by Zach H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just break the relationship off if i were you
good luck with it
2006-10-03 05:38:36 · answer #6 · answered by f1avor_f1av 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋