ive got 6 weeks left of pregnancy im sooo scared, is that usual and is it as scary as im thinking?:-(?

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Giving birth is scary and unpredictable, so your worry and being scared is normal.
It probably is not as scary as you think. If you see the crap they show on TV where the women scream their heads off and toss about wildly while giving birth, then Yeah, you're right to be scared.
But, I'm here to tell you, it really isn't all that bad. Cut the melodramatics by about 3/4 and you have pretty close to the real thing.
I'm not saying it'll be easy, it won't. And it won't be fun at all and it'll hurt and you'll be uncomfortable, but it won't kill you, I promise.
Your doctor, or in some cases the nurses, will give you mild pain killers to control the pain and while you MIGHT feel it, it won't be near what you thought it would be. Pushing will come naturally, they may 'tweak' it so that you use the proper muscles for it, but once the head is out, it's all down hill from there and easy.
Just try to relax and do what they tell you, when they tell you and you and the baby will be fine.
They have epidurals now too that numb you from the waist down, you don't feel a thing other than when to push.
Good Luck and enjoy the new baby!!

Answer 3

Is it completely normal to feel like this towards the end of your pregnancy, because you begin to realise that you don't have many more goals to reach before the birth of your child.

You should try to relax and not worry about labour, it will hurt and you may find it hard but at the end of it you will have a beautiful baby and you will soon forget all about contractions and labour (trust me)

It is normal though to be apprehensive about it coming up and knowing that there are only a few weeks left but make sure you have your labour bag ready amd you are happy about you birth plan if you have made one and everything is in place (It could be a quick, easy birth)

I found that gas and air and pethadine really helped me

Good luck and i hope everything goes well for you x x x x

Answer 4

It is usual for first time Mums to be apprehensive about giving birth, after all we've never done it before and have no idea what to expect. When I had my daughter I was terrified of labour, and I thought everyone saying that you forget about it must be lying, but it is true. It hurts like hell, I mean really, really hurts, but you always know in the back of your mind that this is all for something, it is so you can meet your baby. It is not like a stubbing your toe pain which is completely pointless, it is a pain that is bringing you closer to achieving a goal.

Also you have to keep in mind that you need to be in control. Do whatever you want to, scream and shout and swear, anything that makes you feel better. If someone is irritating you tell them to get out, even if it is a member of the medical staff, just tell them to p**s off. This is about you and keeping yourself relaxed, they will totally understand.

However scared you are now, just keep in your mind that you are having a baby, a beautiful little piece of you, and that is the best thing that will ever happen to you ever! Good luck

Answer 5

I was absolutely terrified from the beginning, not just of the birth but other things too, that i wont go in to. You just have to take each day as it comes and always remembered the no matter how scared you are - this baby does have to come out.. when it comes to it there is no room to be scared of it any more you just get on with it. I'd lie if i say it doesn't hurt but trust me when you have got that little baby in your arms, nothing else matter's.

People used to tell me that you forget it straight away i would have to disagree with that, it took me about 2 weeks to forget what the pain was like and be able to say I'd do it again !!

I'm planning on trying for my 2nd next year !!

You'll be great - don't worry too much !!

Answer 6

Its the strangest thing you'll ever go through- the pain is bad- I had lots of gas this time and went into my own little world- but when my little girl appeared all the discomfort was immediately forgotton you could climb a mountain!! - its really strange!!- suddenly you don't think about yourself anymore the baby is number 1- Mind the gas does make you say strange things I said to my husband "Look its a baby"- derrrrr
remember nothing easy is worth having- just think of the end result!!- amazing!! and if it were that bad there would only be one child per family- i've just had number three!!

Answer 7

I got a baby when i was 16 i was scared of everything! but the little guy had to go out and i chose not to use any anesthesia or epidurals. I thought of the women in the old times that gave bith 7 or more times without any anesthetics. That thought was empowering. I also thought that i was a woman and having a baby is the epitomy of being a woman it's one of the greatest things that define women . Its an honor to give birth..the pain is worth it. It wont kill you :)

Answer 8

i thought having a baby was the best thing ever, i dont remember being n that much pain apart from when they broke my waters, but luckily things moved pretty quick from then on. My labour only lasted 4 hours. My partner would say different though poor sod had nightmares for weeks after, but for me ive forgot the pain. im planning on having more in the future. many people have more than one child so it cant be as bad as alot of people make out.

Answer 9

It depends on what you are scared of. Is it the birth itself? Then yes, its normal to feel afraid. You will have heard so many stories about what labour is like, its gonna be hard to think about it in a positive way!!! If you are scared of being a mum, then don't worry. This is sooooo normal. A lot of women feel afraid they won't be able to cope, but women have been doing this for thousands of years. You will manage!!! Try not to worry about it. Just remeber, at the end of it all, you will have a beautiful baby to take care of.

Answer 10

It is very normal to be scared if it your first child. But it is not really all that bad for most people. Talk to your mother or any older ladies that you might happen to know to try to remove some of the mystery, and then try not to think about it too much or worry. The more relaxed you are the easier it will probably go.

Answer 11

I have three weeks left and also feel quite scared but excited at the same time. Just do what you are told by the professionals and just think about the joy of the end result.

Good luck!!!