I have lived with my bf and his mom dad and brother for three years and we have been toogether a little over 3 years. My bfs brothers girlfriend, stephanie, has been with his brother 6 years and got pregnant with her 14 month old because they had split and she didnt know how to get him back....my bfs brother is anice guy and is going places...he seems to put up with alot of **** and she doesnt seem to do anything but cause him problems....however he loves that baby more than anything now they are moving out....she always gets her way.....i bend over backwards and dont seem to get anything...my boyfriends is 24 his brother is 22 and although my bf is going to school he doesnt seem to be going anywhere he plays video games and acts like a kid and when i mention moving out he gets mad....he tells me his brother is stupid for doing everything for her and to stop bitching at him because i dont have what she has.i love him but i dont know what to doplease help...i want to be treated like her
2006-10-02 21:43:29 · 7 answers · asked by makeusfly0717 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i just dont understand how i do everything hi mother even says hed be lost without me and we dopnt really get along me and his mom...but his brother who is so smart the gf gets pregnant on purpose and has caused him so many problems and she always get what she want they even moved out it dint work and now hes giving he another appartment....i do everything for my bf his mom says other then wipe his behind i do get treated like **** and her like a princess ...i asked him if im wasting my time today he siad no we will get our own place when he finishes school and then married and then kids but at least another year and a half here....but then i started talking about his brother and the gf again he siad he was sick of hearing it and he wasnt going to marry me or move out or have kids with me i said good i dont want your kids....and then he called me a name...and i told him to screw himself lol i dont want to waste nemore time do i wait till school is out in ayear and a half????
2006-10-02 22:01:25 · update #1
What can I say? Look at the logic? If you were a truck of his would he wash you every week and vac the carpets? Or just let dirt and dust pile up? Sadly many guys will treat their toys better than their girl. How many time a week to you allow him to tap your honey cave? It would appear that is the most important thing in the relationship to him. So long as he believe he has a lock on it, why would he have to try any harder? You can only get treated better when YOU demand it. Try keeping you panties on a bit more. He see that he need to anything more, And surely he doesn't treat you as well as his video games. I would try making myself persona non grate and see if that causes him to notice. As far as being treated like the brother's g/f, until he see you as valuable enough yo cherish and please you ain't getting crap, Certainly not more than what you have now. The thing is, is it good enough for you?
2006-10-02 22:47:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him before you get tied down with his baby
there are plenty of good and decent young men you just have to be where you can meet one...work church groups sports leagues be out and open to new experiences and people....you eventually are treated the way that you ALLOW changing that is a great first step!!
2006-10-03 04:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Dump that zero and get you a hero"! There plenty of good men out there that now how to treat a good woman, so why keep wasting precious time on this loser. Too bad the other brother isn't single!
2006-10-03 04:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by Simmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is still acting like a kid..... he have rather play video games than settle down and get serious.....maybe you should move on..you are not living...ask yourself if it will be like this in 1 year or 3 years....you have to decide..
2006-10-03 04:49:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him because he will not change I know from ecperience and with my ex. He still is the same but with another women who is in love with him and he treats her like s.h.i.t. I am married to his younger brother we have been together for 11 years he treats me like a queen and a women. this guy doesn't love you like you think or he would treat you better
2006-10-03 05:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by Dawn S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her about how you feel about the relationship, where is it going and what his goals/plans? check if there is progress for the last 3 years, if its not dump him. Playing video games and stil with parents its ok, unless he doesn't take advantage of you and treat like a princess. if he is not dump him. goodluck!
2006-10-03 04:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't happen with him. Sorry.
The longer you stay, the more you will realize you have a looser. Better to put yourself in position to move ASAP. If you become pregnant your hole will be deeper. Things will not get better(unless some kind of miracle happen), you'll see, they will get worst.
2006-10-03 04:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋