me and my best GAY friend were just hanging out in my room listening to music and then he kisses me and we end up on the floor and the next thing i know i am no longer a virgin. and he didnt use a condom. is this going to ruin our friendship?
2006-10-02 21:29:36 · 26 answers · asked by funnymonkey 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i know i made a mistake but he had a part in it aswell and he is still one of my bestfriends so i would know if he had any STDs!
2006-10-02 21:36:08 · update #1
ok i know alot of u have different oppinions on this but believe me neither of us have any STDs because i was a virgin and he has been tested. plus not all gay people have STDs (that was in reply to an e-mail)
2006-10-02 23:56:28 · update #2
How you should feel is really up to you. Different people have different opinions based on their own backgrounds. If you're ok with what happened and your friend is, and you're still good friends, then I don't see a reason to be ashamed. Heck, it might lead to you two being more than just best friends.
2006-10-03 09:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you let it ruin your friendship, it will. Just try to get over it, but don't act awkward about it either.
MORE importantly, you need to see a doctor because whether you think he doesn't have any STDs or not, he still could have some. You also need to get checked out after having sex, along with the issue of possibly being pregnant from such an encounter.
2006-10-02 21:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by fakingfallacy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God says yes, while sex may not ruin a relationship it can certainly mess up a friendship. Proceed with care. Also I suggest you get some books on the subject as in this day and age any sex outside of a committed monogous relationship that is to the exclusion of all others MUST involve sexual protection, that is to say condoms. I invented them for a reason!.
2006-10-02 23:31:02 · answer #3 · answered by God 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, if he was married or committed...then you should feel a bit guilty. If you had fun, and he's single, yes it will probably change your friendship, but that too will depend on how the both of you handle the new difference in it. I do suggest next time you do use a condom....no one will protect you better than yourself. Your health is important. And if your friendship falls apart, it would be a shame, but that is common when friends become lovers. Good luck.
2006-10-03 08:29:38 · answer #4 · answered by truckinotter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds sexy, yes it is if you don't plan on getting into a deeper relationship.You might also want to get a blood test for hiv and hep a b c in case you got some nasty disease from him...iv got hep b even though i thought i had the shot.Do it soon too, cause if you leave it untreated for over 6month it could become chronic and be an actual threat to your health.O and cheer up, if you enjoyed it and it doesn't have an impact on anyone else but you two then its nothing too big.
2006-10-02 21:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by chesscrazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether it would ruin your friendship or not depends on both of you. What you should be bothered though is the unprotected sex you have had. If you know your bestfriend well enough to know that he doesn't **** around, then you are safe. Nevertheless, both of youyou should get yourselves tested.
2006-10-02 22:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by Esthon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe so, it might ruin your friendship. But at least you're not a virgin. Also you should feel lucky, must guys never have sex.
2006-10-03 22:54:40 · answer #7 · answered by Brandon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Answer to....
Question #1: Only if it didn't feel good.
Question #2: It's certainly going to CHANGE it!
By the way, you should definitely take the "morning-after pill," if you haven't already!!! Better safe than sorry since you din't use a "safe."
2006-10-02 21:35:27 · answer #8 · answered by backinbowl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be wise to get tested, and also get that morning after pill so you don't have a baby, but it might affect your friendship, and if that fling only happened with you, then he was just expirementing, if not, then he is bisexual
2006-10-02 22:31:31 · answer #9 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's hot!
firstly i would recommend using a condom- unless u know he is a pretty "safe" person
I very well could ruin ur relationship... It may be awkward for a while but see where things go...
2006-10-02 22:20:08 · answer #10 · answered by mikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋