Why does sex hurt?
2006-10-02 21:06:14 · 6 answers · asked by KBABY21 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
If he has a large penis that could be one of the reason it hurts. More than likely though you need to be lubricated down there try KY jelly or have him do more foreplay with you so you'll be naturally juicy down there so it goes in easier. Have him go down on you! That feels so good and you'll be more than ready for his hard cock. Also you are guaranteed a orgasm that way.
2006-10-02 21:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find men in our country are often into performance, not in the gentle art of love making. Unless you have that , most women are not turned on enough to have an orgasm. We are not like men or a machine. We are much more complicated in our sexual needs. Perhaps love is not involved and so at a deep level you do not wish to give all to him. Or unconsciously you have a moral issue about what you are doing. Or you are concerned someone will hear you or your child walk in on you, or afraid to be so vulnerable. Or you were sexually abused as a child. Or his penis is too big and you smaller and more delicate for his size. Or you were torn with the birth of your child and the repair by the doctors was done poorly. Ask your doctor to see if you are physically alright there. And lastly you may be making love with the wrong sex. That was true for me. And I did not figure that out (and have the courage to act on it) until I was in my mid sixties. Did you watch Oprah today? There should be a repeat late at nite (if you live in US) . It was about this very subject. Take care...we care.
2006-10-02 21:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lilaac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some may say its not you its me...but we mean its always you.... heres the thing, in this case its me ( as in you) sex hurts cause your vaginal opening is tight, or his penis is simply not the right size for you (its not the size that matters its the girth) so get a new sex partner...and if hes your hubby, get a lover...with a smaller dick! Now the orgasm is vital for sex to be good, and usually its his fault if u cant orgasm because you're a woman...dont take the blame even if it is ur fault. ONCE AGAIN (AND I CANT STRESS THIS ENOUGH) GET ANOTHER MAN...OR A VIBRATOR...!!!
2006-10-02 21:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by Nikachu 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sex hurts either because you aren't producing enough natural lubrication, or your man is too big (most likely the former)... so it may be you... your lack of enthusiasm perhaps? or your indifference. Your man needs to find a new way to get you riled up.
2006-10-02 21:19:10 · answer #4 · answered by bigcatbarber 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definite and no. i could evaluate her dropping her virginity... however the subsequent time she has intercourse and her hymen breaks and the guy completely has intercourse, then if i became into her then i could then evaluate that because of the fact the time she misplaced her virginity. yet having an orgasm has no longer something to do with it. desire I helped
2016-12-26 08:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it hurts you'll not have an orgasm.
Ask him to give you oral so that you can experience an orgasm.
2006-10-02 21:21:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋