Im 32 and i feel i failed about very most of things
2006-10-02 20:09:31 · 14 answers · asked by whatever 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it sounds like you suffer from some form of depression. Are you very shy? In order to meet people you need to get out there. What do you enjoy? Find others who enjoy the same things through groups or clubs or even chat groups. Give it a try.
2006-10-02 20:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by tay_jen1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all fail in one way or another and it will be an ongoing learning experience. Just stay positive and have some fun, go out camping, to the lake or any outdoor activities, I am sure you will find lots of friends. Be a good spirit and have some sense of humor and don't forget the big smile. Get of your computer and spend some time with real people. You even can talk to them at the grocery store. Just get out an do it.
2006-10-02 20:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you would learn how to speak properly and write properly then maybe someone just might like to be your friend? how old are you anyway? mentally that is. Only you know why you have no friends. Friendship is all about compassion and caring and love. If you are not any better educated than this statement reveals that may be part of the problem.
2006-10-02 20:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by orlin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried seeing someone? Perhaps you lack in self esteem that is needed to be proactive in seeking friendships and relationships. Try some local mental health services in the area to deal with self esteem issues, they can be really helpful. Also, try more activities in which you can meet new people - learn a new language, do a cooking class, perhaps some adventure activites - people are waiting to meet you in hundreds of places!
2006-10-02 20:13:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could have something to do with a low self esteem. Are you social? If not, go be social, and Im sure you will find someone. Dont be too hard on yourself BTW. We all suck at a lot of things :D
2006-10-02 20:13:49 · answer #5 · answered by RocketGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy with your avatar and the attitude in your question, who would want to be around such a sad sack. Ask yourself, am I the kind of person people enjoy being around? Am I pleasant; do I talk about other people, do I listen, and I fun to be around; etc...
With a name like whatever and thinking your a failure at everything doesn't exactly make me want to be around a person like that.
You have some changing to do. I wish you luck because if you want to, you can take control and change things for yourself.
2006-10-02 20:15:49 · answer #6 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Join a club in something you are interested in. Realize that failure is just a learning experience and that you need failure in your life in order to appreciate the good things. Volunteer in some organization where you can meet people. Good luck.
2006-10-02 20:12:14 · answer #7 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
32 is very young to give inn to resignation, I am sure you can find friends if you want too. but not every friend is a friend , a true friend is difficult to find. and if you find one , that is enough . you don't have to have lots of friends, and since you are so young , start what every you think you wanted to accomplish in your life, and believe me it is never to lat. and believe me also you can achieve everything in life if you want and try hard enough for it.
2006-10-02 20:18:06 · answer #8 · answered by santa s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause maybe your just a loser loner that needs to get out of your moms house nd off myspace and talk to people ****..its called getting a life you should get one
2006-10-02 20:33:41 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of self confidence.
2006-10-02 20:12:48 · answer #10 · answered by Saphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋