It could be so many different things that made her say that. Since you didn't give more info about what the conversation was before or after the comment, and we don't know either of you, it's impossible to tell.
She could be jealous, so she's trying to make herself feel better by putting you down.
You may have done something accidentally that upset her, and she's trying to get back at you.
Maybe a guy she likes has a crush on you, so she's trying to turn him against you by making you look bad.
Just relax, and forget about it. All that matters is if you are happy with yourself. You sound like you have a lot going for you, so don't let the opinions of others hurt you. If you do, you might start trying to change to make them happy. There is nothing worse than a fake, so don't ever try to be anyone you aren't.
2006-10-02 18:53:34
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answered by welches_grape_jelly 6
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If you don't think you're ugly inside and out, you're right. And if you think you're ugly inside and out, you're right too...
I have this favorite saying that was coined by Eleanor Roosevelt:
No one can make you feel inferior without your permission...
Next time she says something like that, just look at her with a little smirk on your face, smile and laugh a little and say.... well, that's just your opinion.... and walk away. Don't waste any of your precious life time thinking about a person who is mean enough to put you down.... life's too short to listen to ugly people.... And try this: Pretend that girl is in front of you. Close your fist and then point a finger at her.... Just like she was doing by pointing at you verbally..... now look down at your hand. If you'll notice, when you point a finger at someone (be it physically or verbally like she did) you'll notice that one finger is pointing at the other person but 3 fingers are pointing at yourself.... Perhaps she was talking about herself. I always tend to think we see what we are.... Ignore ignorant people. Life can only get better after that.
2006-10-02 17:49:28
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answered by The ReDesign Diva 7
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I do not know and I have no way of looking in your eyes to see the real person. I hope you are a good person. But you're abilities have nothing to do with how you appear to people. Are you hateful? Self centered? A D cup has nothing to do with beauty except to perverts.
Pray about it and try not to let other peoples opinions get to you. Some one in this world thinks your beautiful.
2006-10-02 17:44:49
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answered by JENNLUPE 4
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okay you're active, atractive, and jamican, but think... could you possibley be a little snooty. I mean it's been my experience that there is a difference between confidence & self absorbency. Think about how you treat the less active people. The less atractive people. Then ask yourself...." how does that make YOU feel?''... iate200cows where are you on this one?!?!?!
2006-10-02 18:07:08
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answered by Harmony 3
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What were the events or words being said leading up to her saying that...? Maybe you are cocky or stuck on yourself amongst those other traits??? I dont know why someone would say that unless the had a valid reason or they were jealous of you.
2006-10-02 17:41:30
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answered by Amy >'.'< 5
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She could be jealous. If that's the case, then if you get upset or angry she'll feel she was right all along. Best to just be calm and be her friend no matter what she says or does.
Beauty is as beauty does.
2006-10-02 17:42:07
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answered by Mmerobin 6
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How would we know ?We don't have a picture of you.It shouldn't matter what she thinks.and besides beauty is in the eye of the beholder.If you have good heart ,and you love yourself for you,than that is all that counts.
2006-10-03 15:26:58
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answered by Anonymous
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I think it's just jealousy she the one with the bad attitude if she's telling someone esle what i wrong with them I hate people like that.
2006-10-02 20:18:23
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answered by Anonymous
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beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
she's just being mean. tell her to shove off.
u are beautiful. u have to believe it.
the most stunning person in the world can be ugly, if their heart is black.
2006-10-02 17:40:58
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answered by Anonymous
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Girrrl...there's a lot of haters out there. As long as you know you have all those wonderful qualities do worry about what others think. People can be cruel.
2006-10-02 17:42:27
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answered by Savez Agir 3
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