WHat do u do when hope becomes a thing of the past and every morning you dread getting out of bed?

Answer 1

When you are hating your world you need to remember that it is YOUR WORLD and you have the choice to do whatever you liek with it - you can choose to turn left or right at any corner - stay in bed or go to work - yes there are consequences to all actions but the choice is yours. This is your life to live as you please - so do what you want to do and choose to think about the things that matter to you - not anybody else.

Answer 2

God! This question is so where I am right now in my life. Hope is all gone and all I wish for every daily is death. I never want to get out of bed and I despise having to go forth and engage this wicked world. It is so unpleasent out there in life.

Hope is clearly a thing of the past. All food taste the same and there is no joy in my life. A joyless life I have indeed. I'm not certain what to do about all of this because I am totally at a loss. Earth and its people are boring and all I've been waiting around for is death that seems to be taking its sweet time coming.

As far as yourself. Do you have people in your life that you love and they love you? Do you have things you care about? Do you have friends and hobbies? Is life still a do able thing for you? If not then join me in hell, but if you do still have a measure of hope then go see a doctor and get yourself on some medication and try to live.

-Jax6213

Answer 3

I know the feeling well, believe you me. It is called depression and it will cripple you emotionally if you do not do something about it.

Call someone for help. A psychiatrist, psychologist, pastor or other professional. And don't let them make you think the only answer is pills, because it's not. Some doctors want to give you a pill for everything. Make sure you try all your options before you start taking antidepressants.

I know that it is hard to ask for help because I have been there. But I also know that you can't get better, unless you do something for yourself. Make yourself get up and do the things you don't want to do. Make yourself be around other people when you want to be alone. Those are just a couple of things you can do to help yourself. But, if you can't handle it, there is NO shame in asking for help. The shame is staying the way you are now.

I hope things get better. Lots of luck!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

You formulate a plan to make it better. If the situation really is hopeless, like you love someone who doesn't love you back or your job is miserable, then you make a decision to move on and find something NEW that will make you happy. Sometimes you just have to look around you and be thankful for the little things. You might think you have it bad until you stop to consider what the person next to you is dealing with. It might sound cliche but at some point you make a choice to snap out of it.

Answer 5

Be kind to yourself; life can be hard. Normally our brain creates chemicals which make us feel good. Exercise, diet, sleep patterns, friends, hobbies & family all help.

Perhaps grabbing a motivational book like "Think & Grow Rich" can help. It's not as cheesy as the title sounds. Explore if you need professional help & what is the reason for this.

Sometimes it can be hormonal or other medical reasons. Yahoo has many self-help groups & you can often get free advice. Talk & write your problem out (as you did here.) Ask for help...you are worth it.

You are a unique individual & there's a reason why you are here. However we all get depressed at one time or another. And many of us are chronic. Whatever you do, don't socially isolate.

You can help yourself, just reward yourself for baby steps. Indulge in a favorite activity like reading a book, going to the movie etc. Good luck!!

Answer 6

Hope is for dopes... Accept the situation, stick it out or leave, but quit hoping... it is a big waste of effort.

If there is a God, He's sick of your bellyaching.

Sorry if that sounds cruel, but the idea is to get you motivated to approach the problem from a different angle.

I start to question the possibilities: probably just need to go to bed earlier, change my diet, work out more, maybe there is mold in my house, not enough air when I am sleeping.

It usually works for me, but I also think that part of the problem is that EVERYONE dreads getting out of bed.

The only successful people I know tell me they go to bed early and force themselves out in the morning, force themselves to think happy thoughts and force themselves to be productive.

I'll force myself to smile, but don't expect much more...

Answer 7

When you reach that level of despondency you have to will yourself out of bed. Accept your unhappiness for the time being, get your emotions into neutral, put yourself in auto-pilot, get busy and start working on becoming less and less miserable each day until you reach a stage of reasonable comfort and start feeling more positive about your prospects in life. There is no quick fix, you're in for the long haul but being negative is not the solution.

Answer 8

Depends on why you are feeling that hope is a thing of the past.

You have a couple choices...

1. Stay and bed and believe all hope is gone...

2. Get out of bed and LOOK for something to hope in...

The future and the choice is YOURS.

Answer 9

you find something new to get excited about. something that will give you new hope and reason to want to get out of bed in the mornings. something that you stay up all night thinking God i cant wait till morning. something that makes you ready to welcome the day and never want it to end just coz you are having so much fun. find that thing and you'll be cured.

Answer 10

You try something different. If you think your career is going nowhere you can spare a couple hours of your time looking for a new job. Developing skills for a new job.

If career and finance isn't your problem. You try something new. Develop a hobby or something.