nag at us men every time we walk in the door from working all day over nothing. Do they want use to go out and find an unattractive woman to go sleep with or what?
2006-10-02 17:17:24 · 35 answers · asked by lifescircle 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
GOD DAMMIT I SIT HERE ALL ALONE ALL DAMN DAY AND DO YOUR DISHES AND WASH YOUR LAUNDRY AN DU CANT TAKE ME ANYWHERE AND THIS IS HOW U TREAT ME GOD DAMMIT NOW U WANNA SLEEP WITH AN UNATTRACTIVE WOMAN WHY DIDNT YOU MOW THAT LAWN? AND WHY ISNT MY DAMN SINK FIXXED????
2006-10-02 17:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Sure, go ahead and sleep with the unattractive woman. Do you think when she moves in with/marries you, she won't nag you just like the more attractive one? Then you're left with a less attractive nag.
Instead, you might want to look inside and see what you're doing to make her nag at you. Coming home late? Coming home and sitting down after throwing your clothes on the floor and expecting her to cook for and clean up after you?
Try coming home on time, bringing her some flowers and helping out a bit. You'll be amazed at her transformation!
2006-10-02 17:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by all1g8r 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No we don't! Well I can not speak for all women, but my better half just asked me that question! So this is something that I told him I am willing to work on to make our relationship work. Why do we do it? Well I find my self doing it when I do not get my way, and when I have to keep telling him something he already know he should have done. Lately its because i am use to nagging so it could be the littlest thing that would set me off. You all have some part in it as well, if you all pay more attention and just do your part that would help stop the nagging. We do let the littlest things in life upset us.
2006-10-02 17:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by Ms_tlts 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women "nag" men because of the shifting roles of man and woman that have come to pass in society. Women used to work inside the home and men used to work outside the home. You don't say if your wife works outside the home as well, but if she does, she is part of the women that have to work at two jobs - inside the home and outside the home, whereas a man is expected to work at one, so women expect that if they have two jobs and not one, men should also have the same two jobs and not force them to carry it all; it's only fair. I think overall a woman is built to take on more of the inside work and as long as she can see that a man is helping out somewhat that would probably be fine for her, but seriously if a man is basically just playing up his "manly subservience to me" role while he is sitting on the couch watching tv wondering why she's running around like a nutcase, a woman is going to end up frustrated and "nagging" - you get the picture.
2006-10-02 17:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by Angelwings 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all women do that. If you chose a woman that does that....Well, then you had a hand in that. If you didn't like that person's qualities then you should of moved on before making a commitment with that person. And if you want to find satisfaction somewhere else that is wrong to. You made your bed you need to lie in it. Communicate with this person and explain your needs and wants don't find sex somewhere else because your woman is a nag.
2006-10-02 17:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its either she had a bad day and she's taking it out on u... or u did something bad around the house before u walked out for work (it could be a sock u left around the stairways last night) and she found out. if she's a housewife, u have to understand... she's got heaps of time around the house to find every mistake u made. so suck it up. she nags, but she still loves u. just put on a "im sorry honey... but i love u" face or buy her flowers once in a while... if u didn't do anything TOO bad, her b*tchiness will easily fade away.
2006-10-02 17:23:25 · answer #6 · answered by lil'sammy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe they just want some attention.
i know i used to nag at my hubby when he walked in the door because i was at home all day taking care of the baby and home and didn't get to go anywhere or do anything fun anymore.
we got all that straightened out though.
by the way maybe it's that time of the month for some women some of us tend to get grouchy around that time so be careful! :)
2006-10-02 17:20:33 · answer #7 · answered by native_lady 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! Did it ever occur to you that maybe she wants you to see that she's working hard too and that she needs to feel appriciated? Also attitude is everything and how you approach her will make a huge difference. Try something like, " Hello sweetheart, how was your day?" She might not "nag" as much. Compliments are a man's best friend.... but only if they are sincere. make her feel special and she will reciprocate.
2006-10-02 17:26:58 · answer #8 · answered by mizindependent 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think men and women communicate differently. Why refer to it as nagging? Try talking to her and understanding what the problem is? She may just want you to listen to her and give her a hug. Or better yet, you could let her know that just got in and ask her to give you time to settle in and then talk.
2006-10-02 17:28:03 · answer #9 · answered by Natural Beauty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I thought so too, but woman like to communicate a lot more than men do, they just like to talk a lot.
before you get inside the house sit in the car for a few minutes and just relax before getting inside the house get some fresh air and then go inside and mentally prepare yourself for at least 10 minutes of blah blah blah, they'll tell you about what they did, saw, didn't see, etc...
the best way to counter attack this is by also talking, that's why you need to take that break before getting inside the zone.
Talk about how it went at work or even about something you hear on the news than just ask them a few questions about what they did during the day, dude! trust me at night she going to be different and next day in the morning leave a sticky note with something like: "yesterday was nice, lov u" (or something you really mean)
BAM! you got her... once you come back from work you'll even have dinner served for you and by the way the best thing you can do to avoid loooong conversations in the afternoon, call her at least once on your lunch break for about 8 minutes, let her just go blah blah blah... 8 minutes... sorry gotta go back to work just called to say hi, love you.
Just like that and you'll be happy. trust me... give it a shot at least once, the sticky note and the daily phone call.
2006-10-02 17:29:32 · answer #10 · answered by smarius11 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do yall act like lilpussyassbitches when we don't want cuskya lil small falloutthepussydicks . if ya clean up when we ask you we won't nag and then ya may get the freakiest sex you ever had in life if ya treated us right we wouldn't nag ya viagra needing asses yall make me sick you lazy moma boy men just some lameassmuthafuckers. do what ya woman ask and maybe you'll get nagged less take care of home besides paying bills do what you did to get the woamn when ya was lying and running game to get her to date ya remember those lies ya tell a woman to get in the drawls do you remember that ya jackass??? yall do a lot to ge the panties but ya don't want to keep the maintenance on the relationship. grow the hell up and shutthefuck up ok ya irritating fool..you aren't worth the sperm that ya dad used to squirt ya mom with
2006-10-02 17:41:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋