Does your baby's daddy normally try to get back with you after you have the baby?

Question

If your baby's father did you wrong and they know it do they normally try to come back and make it work an dhow long does it take them(2month old baby)

he wanted this baby.We've been off an don for about 5 1/2 years.He knows he messed up.He never really wanted to be commited and now that his family is speaking marriage he has a girlfriend.When he was speaking marriage on his own it was fine

Answer 1

Sometimes. But I would be extremely suspicious of his reasons for coming back. I would bet that his new "feelings" wouldn't last very long, and honey, he'll be doing you wrong once again.

You've heard the saying; "A zebra can't change it's stripes"? Well now you have, and it's true.
I think they come back because some part of him Wants to be a man, and take care of what's his. But it is usually short lived.

My advice would for you to stop waiting around for this man. I know you're maybe baby blue'n right now, and that makes it even harder to be alone. But know that you'd be in so much more pain in a year or so, when you have to relive your history again. This time actually affecting what your baby thinks is normal too.

Join a baby & me type group. Check your rec centres. Keep in touch with family and friends, and go out everyday. You'll have your baby to keep happy as well, and you'll find so much love in that.

Good Luck!

Answer 2

depends if he even wanted to be a daddy to begin with
if not then no you won't see him again
if he was tricked into it definately not
if it was a one night stand and knows and hasn't made the effort
no way
depends on the relationship with the baby's father
depends on the level of maturity and the circumstances
eg: is the father with someone else now?
if so i shouldn't imagine he'd want to know
does this help ?
basically it depends on the guy and the relationship you were in at the time and the relatioinship you are in with the father
Dee xo
ps: don't hold your breath sweetie

Answer 3

Totally depends on the Father. Some men couldn't care less that they now have a child... and for others it totally turns their lives around.

In a personal note... It took my husband to see the baby before he admitted that he'd been a jerk in the past (this was before we were married). He turned his life around and made things right from the moment he held his daughter in his arms. He's still working on himself though... It's not a 'miraculous' transformation... more like a continual work in progress.

Change is easy... it's maintaining that change that's hard.

Answer 4

yes. they come back but mostly because they know you will take them back eventually because you have a child with them. You are now his safety net when it does not work out with other women.

the time varies.

but rarely will they continue to be faithful. once a cheat always a cheat.

is that the type of man you want in your life?

and is that the type of person you want your child to look up to?

Answer 5

are u sure you really want to be with him off and on isn't really the best kind of relationship to turn into a marriage

Answer 6

I don't think so... Usually leaving is a sign that he is not ready for the family thing yet... You are probably better off without him.

Answer 7

I am married to all my baby's daddy (4 babies, 1 daddy, my husband), so I guess I say yes.

Answer 8

Are you implying that you would actually want him back? People don't change. If he left you once, he'll do it again. Stay away.

Answer 9

Well he's trying to get back, some don't NEVER come back.

Answer 10

Depends on the guy...