my last normal period was on august 28 and on the morning of september 20 i began spotting and cramping... the spotting was a light brown and in a very small amount it lasted for approxemently 5 days and went away... i assumed i may be pregnant and took a first response hpt on 9/24 but got a negative result... i still have not gotten my actual period but i usually am late... and i have never been on a regular cycle since i started menstrauting at the age of 12... in your opinion do you think i should be worried about the possibility of pregnancy or is my cycle just goofing up... please respond i need some sort of answers on what is happening with my body... <3 lindsey
***my boyfriend also uses the pull out method when we have sex.. and i want to become pregnant
2006-10-02 17:06:41 · 15 answers · asked by i♥mychristopher 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
there is a slight possibility you may be pregnant, bot more likely you are just late again. Your boyfriend is not using a very reliable method because there is a secretion from the penis called precum. It still contains sperm. He obviously isn't ready to have a baby so I wouldn't force it, you may end up with a baby but no daddy to help you out. It is a lonely life.
2006-10-02 17:27:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of all the methods of birth control that is the least effective. There is always the matter of the "pre-ejaculatory" fluids which can contain sperm as well.
If your period has always been off track and hard to follow you might not be pregnant. Most doctors will recommend birth control pills to get your cycle under control -- not necessarily for the birth control aspect of it.
However, in relation to your question, the best way to find out would be to take an at home test and see what it has to say again. Tests some times read a false negative if they are taken too early. Sometimes there just aren't enough of the horomones in your urine to make a positive.
Try a test again... and, if the answer still doesn't suit you, make an appointment to see your doctor.
2006-10-02 17:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first about the pull out method. I got pregnant with baby number four by the pull out method. Your boyfriend does not know when he pre-cums, but that also contains sperm. Pre-*** seeps out all during intercourse. I found that out at my first pre-natal app. with my fourth baby. Now, if you don't start your actual period within two weeks, I would go to an OB, You could be pregnant. I took 6 tests with my oldest and they were all negative (I was 16) I took those all within 3 days, on the fourth day (I just knew) I went to the doc for a blood test and it was positive. Now, if you do that and its negative, get an examination, it could be something else going on. Good luck hon!
2006-10-02 17:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to see a Dr. Second I don't think a 17 year old has enough control over the pull out method not even adults at times. Why would you want a baby at 17? I had my first at 21 and was scared as HELL! It is easy to have a baby but to raise it is another.
2006-10-02 17:12:29 · answer #4 · answered by mom of jeff sean sammy gayle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coming from someone who had a baby at 22 (now 24) i would not use the pull out method AT ALL!!! 17 is to young to have a baby you should finish high school and then go to college if not college find a good job because u will need it!!! at 17 all your friends are goin to partys goin here doin this and that and you will be sitting at home with your baby (who you will love to death dont get my wrong) but u will be wishing you could do the same as your friends trust me im 24 and still goin threw it, you will have to pay for daycare while you work becasue you will HAVE to work to pay for everything the baby and u need let me tell you stuff isnt cheap anymore!! i just think that maybe you should reconsider having a baby at such a young age....i would go get blood work to see if you are now!! Good Luck
2006-10-02 17:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! there's a lot of issues there, hun. Unprotected sex?????? Never a good idea. Pregnant NOW? Why? You may be wanting a baby, but you have a lot of things to consider to be responsible. Can you provide all a baby needs, diapers, food, clothes, bedding, MEDICAL.....Please see your doc about the changes in your period,,you may have some infection. Are you going to finish school, marry, how are you going to pay rent, pay for a car or transportation, who will care for your bundle of joy while you two work 2 jobs to keep your heads above water.?
2006-10-02 17:19:18 · answer #6 · answered by Lola 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 17 years old please be a kid before you have a kid wait until there is a wedding ring on your finger. Pull out isn't really a birth control method it is an excuse for when you do get pregnant and no i thnk that your cycle is just wacky but go to a doctor to find out for sure
2006-10-02 18:26:22 · answer #7 · answered by jory1601 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the same way, I took a pregnancy test came up neg.
Then my breasts started to get tender, i took another test a few days later and it came up positive, I used EPT it seemed to work.
I would try again.
Or you can just go into the doctors and get checked, that workes too.
2006-10-02 17:47:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no. If the spotting lasted 5 days and you got a negative test, I would say no. But if you're having sex, it's always possible.
2006-10-02 17:12:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to get pregnant, it is so expensive to have a baby, but you need to see a doctor for a blood test to be positive.
2006-10-02 17:15:01 · answer #10 · answered by notAminiVANmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋