The son was 27.Killed in a 14 vehicle pile up.Someone was gonna help him out of truck,but he was already dead.Before they got him out, his vehicle exploded.He was completely burned up.He left wife and 5 yr.old daughter,brother,Mother & Dad. It's been 6 days now.He was a compasionate person,loving animals.Had a troubled past & just got out of prison about 4 mos. ago. Everyone in town loved him despite his problems w/drugs.
2006-10-02 16:55:00 · 8 answers · asked by moonpie912004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There's no words of magic to comfort a grieving parent. My 1 yr old died of muscular dystophy years ago.
My sister's friend sent a card, where she wrote "try to forget about _______" I would rather forget about my sister's friend!
2006-10-02 16:58:57 · answer #1 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me start out by saying that I am sorry.For u and her.For u b/c it's hard to console someone in that situation and her b/c only time can heal her open whomb's.The only thing you can do is pray for her and encourage her.Be there b/c the road is about to get rough and theres no set time in dealing w/a death. despite the troubled past Im sure the love was more than strong but here's what I suggest talk to her,be there for th elate @ night wake up calls.The sudden break downs and the laughter of things that happened in the past and explain to her that he's in a better place b/c the real hell is here on earth.
2006-10-03 00:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can say or do to relieve her grief. But you can support her by allowing her to talk, cry, laugh, cuss out God,
whatever she needs to do and feel comfortable in front of you with her bad behavior. She deserves that.
It will eventually pass. Just love her unconditionally & non-judgmentally.
2006-10-02 23:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by Cookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing that you say or do is going to make it any easier. Just be there for your friend and listen when he/she needs to talk. Make some meals for the family and offer to get your friend out of the house and go do something.
2006-10-02 23:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be there for them- be there for his parents, wife & kids however they need help. people often fall into a depression after this trauma & stop doing things like house maintenence & things, so maybe you could offer to do yard work, or run errands?
2006-10-02 23:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there for them. when you feel sad your friends will stay with you. make sure you are 100% caring about what you do for them. in a while, they will feel better and a lot of credit will go to you. and pray for them. friends need that. good luck
2006-10-02 23:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by i am the dream u r the dreamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there to listen and and lend a shoulder to cry on. not much else you can do but be there. I am so sorry for your friends lose ! God Bless
2006-10-02 23:57:41 · answer #7 · answered by stormyjoem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray for her to heal , and be there when she needs you .
2006-10-02 23:58:11 · answer #8 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋