i hope not too old.so far the ones with the right state of mind about relationships seems to be 35 and older.just asking.
2006-10-02 16:26:50 · 13 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
there is no age limit on settling down. for me i was 26 when i started looking for that right person. i found her and got married at 28. i knew it was time when i got tired of clubbing. i never played the player role so that helped me as far as settling down with one woman..
2006-10-02 22:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by brian b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately only you have that answer. If you get cold sweats when you think about settling down with your current significant other, perhaps she / he is not the one for you. But take it seriously and ask yourself if you can imagine waking up next to this person for the rest of your life; can you stand beside them and support them in every endeavor they pursue -- in every scenario there is -- money trouble, family trouble, illness, joblessness, funky habits, every scenario you can think about. When you can think of a really messed up situation then imagine your significant other walking into the room and you feel a sense of relief, then you'll be ready and with the right person. And whatever you do, don't 'settle' because you're feeling impatient or that you're getting too old and time is running out, or that all your friends like her / him. Your friends aren't potentially going to have to push your butt around in a wheel chair (God forbid), or hang around after you've been a jerk all day but still need your Depends changed.
2006-10-02 16:40:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's right, there is no problem with state of mind. I got married in my twenties. It all depends on the guy. Most people are waiting later to settle down and I think that has something to do with a generation living at home longer. Most people are living at home, moving back home with parents after school, etc. Maybe that's got something to do with it.
2006-10-02 16:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by bardstale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell me approximately it! they desire to sow their wild oats jointly as they're youthful and good finding sufficient to do it. Then while they get previous and dried up they conflict and get some youthful warm ingredient to marry them! How backward. the sorrowful area is, no rely how previous and dried up they grow to be, they'll have not any shortage of ladies people (warm or no longer) coated as much as marry them each and every time they're waiting. Why? because of the fact for one, there are greater persons than there are them...10 to a million, and 2 because of the fact we've been so conditioned by using society to think of that we are no longer something without guy/husband, confident even in 2006 we back-bite, decrease throat and decrease down one yet another (women people) for basically certainly one of them. We settled for their BS, the mendacity and cheating and we compete with one yet another to work out who will win their sorry asses as a prize because of the fact God forbid we get to be 30 - 35 and not be married!! it is so so unhappy, yet so authentic. And it pisses me off.
2016-10-18 09:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romantic Answer: You find your soulmate, the one who completes every aspect of your being. You could be 19 or 99 when this happens, but the key is to wait for that one perfect person to happen along, and then grab them and hold them with every ounce of energy your being possesses!
This is often referred to as "in love."
Cynical Answer: You have to be convinced that whoever has agreed to settle down with you is the best you can ever do, and decide that you are going to live with this knowledge for the rest of your life.
This is "love," and is a decision, not an emotional condition.
2006-10-02 16:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by jbtascam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the person and their situation. I'm 25 and I feel that if I find the right person, I could settle down with them. And also, I do have a 4 year old daughter, so that plays a factor into my thinking.
2006-10-02 16:29:17 · answer #6 · answered by Woody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What it takes is having to buy the cow and not getting the milk for free, like in the old days. This of course means that they shouldn't have sex before they're married, and then there wouldn't be this ********* about waiting until 35.
2006-10-02 16:29:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strictly from a standpoint of age, I think that you are about right on the money at 35. But, I think that the actual match up of two highly compatable persons is more important than the age.
2006-10-02 16:33:08 · answer #8 · answered by Justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it's time to settle down is something a person knows when they are ready. It's a feeling/emotion that just happens one day. There is no set time in life for it.
2006-10-02 16:33:20 · answer #9 · answered by Dale 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does not take a certain age it is more of where u r at in life i settled down with my wife at 25 and i am now 29 so it depends on where u r at emotionally, spirtually, so good luck, i hope u find the 1 that matters.
2006-10-02 16:29:34 · answer #10 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋