If your pro-life and your clsoe friend/relative was going to have an abortion would you support them and go with them?
2006-10-02 16:23:43 · 22 answers · asked by TrofyWife 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I would try to persuade her not to do it. There are psychological consequences.
But you have to understand that you can only give them your advice but that is all. You have to evaluate the situation and If YOU feel like going just do it, but if you have moral issues don´t.
2006-10-06 16:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by alex_josue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By going with them you are an accesory to the violent act. I would have a heart to heart conversation with this person to them her know how you feel and explain that although you cannot support the decision and be there when the procedure is done you will pray and ask for God to watch over her. After the abortion it will be important for you to be there and support her emotionally and pray with and for her.
2006-10-02 23:56:47 · answer #2 · answered by SoCcEr AnGeL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't. I am so against abortion, it is not funny. I have a friend who had an abortion fail, she is now prolife, and her poor son is in a wheelchair forever because of the failed attempt. He has severe brain damage, he is 12 but to the developmental level of a 2 month old. And will probably be there forever. When my friend looks at her son, she just cries because of what she has done to him.
2006-10-03 00:06:18 · answer #3 · answered by mom_of_4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would support them even though I was against it because there is always a need for support no matter what. I would tell that person that I wasn't comfortable about the decision that was being made, but I would be there if she needed me too.
2006-10-03 00:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by BlackBerry DymondTink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't just ignore their decision, and hope they end up ok. You have to be there to support them, but if you don't feel comfortable with actually going to the clinic with them then don't. You are a good friend for wanting to do the right thing by her. If she is a good friend she will understand your decision too. You have to go with your heart and stand by your beliefs. Obviously she is doing the same by not having the baby.
2006-10-02 23:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by Diane A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't believe in abortion but i still supported a friend of mine in her desision to end her pregnancy. I told her that i felt she was making the wrong decision but that i still loved her she got pregnant again 2 months after her abortion and is keeping this baby and does regret what she did
2006-10-03 01:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by jory1601 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would discourage it and look into other options, however if they still decided to go through with it I don't think Id go with them but Id be there for them better that then the baby ending up in the dumpster.
2006-10-03 00:25:41 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ to ...... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to comfort them and depending on the situation it may be for the best (case of rape,incest etc) but not as a birth control.
i do not believe in abortion and could not go with them in the room.
2006-10-02 23:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by foxy_woman_70 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Support them
2006-10-02 23:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Of course!!!! What people choose to do is their own business> I would try to offer some other options to my friend, but if she still chose an abortion, I would stand by that 100%. I do the sme now with my best friend who lost a lung to cancer and still smokes! She knows that I think it's dumb, but she is a grown up and she makes her own decision. I don't badger her at all. Another friend of mine was marrying the worst man on the planet, who I hated and so did her parents, but I was her maid of honor and we all stood by her during her divorce. That's what friends do. They love you no matter what you decide!
2006-10-02 23:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by glitz_and_glitter 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋