She keeps asking me if i am and no matter how many times i tell her im not she doesn't believe me. she lets me stay home alone and lets me go out at night so she does trust me when something goes wrong she asks me for the truth and believes me why not believe me on this??
2006-10-02 16:20:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like your mom cares about you,
Shes just worried about you, some girls are messing around at 14 and end up with babys.
Glad to here your not. Talk to you mom about it. Tell her what you know about being sexally active, and why your not and why you want to wait.
Ask her if you can come to her and ask her Questions when your ready too.
Good Luck
2006-10-02 16:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by Sunglass kid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it the friends you hang out with? It could be the music of today, but in the 80's our music wasn't pure either. Tell her you were a teenager too, MOM . Let me see some pictures of you. Turn it around let her start talking about herself and you'll bond in a whole different way. She'll think you do care about her, and maybe start reflecting on how hard it is to find yourself as a teenager. Good Luck
2006-10-02 23:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by cruisingalong 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is no way to make her believe lyou except to tell her the truth every time she asks you, you could try to sit down and talk to her about it and say hey mom i have told you time and time again that i am not and yet you still don't believe me it really hurts me that you don't believe me can we get passed this or are you still going to think that i am active when i am not?
2006-10-02 23:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by marlette n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and have a serious talk with her when she is in a good mood. She is probably worried because so many young girls are behaving badly these days. Tell her that you would never do anything to disappoint her or take away her trust in you.
2006-10-02 23:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry that your Mom has this problem. Explain to her that u are not. If she does not listen---ask--why not?
I am truly sorry for the situation, but u r a very secure girl. It sounds like u r smarter than most.
I would not want to label it but it sounds like her past haunts her.
Keep up the good work and take care of you!!!
2006-10-02 23:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by guardianofdoves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she might be obsessing over this issue. Maybe someone or something came across her mind with some information and she can't let it go. See if your Dad can help out. Or some other adult you can talk to and have them speak to your mom.
2006-10-02 23:32:45 · answer #6 · answered by msjuliet2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want her to stop asking you, then go to the doctor and prove it. Then tell her that you will tell her when you do decide to become active, that you know that she's worried but it's ok.
2006-10-02 23:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by Aliayh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have given her some reason to think that you are sexually active. Tell her that she has done a great job raising you and she can trust you.
2006-10-02 23:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you are being honest with yourself and your mum you have nothing to worry about she loves you that is why she asks she doesnt want you having children or getting diseases thats the only reason she asks if your a virgin keep up the good work well done
2006-10-02 23:24:45 · answer #9 · answered by debra o 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her to quit trippin cause my parents did that and it freaked me out about things that are normal. Just use the prepackaged precautions when you do and tell her that it aint nothin but a thang.
2006-10-02 23:32:59 · answer #10 · answered by judypunch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋