me and my ex broke up 1 yr ago and now he is dating this 15yr old and he's 30yr old,and now they have a baby together,what should happend to him?should i turn him in to the police?of should i leave it alone?will their relationship lasts as long our relationship lasted when we were together for 11 yrs.?
2006-10-02 15:58:39 · 37 answers · asked by thickness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
call the police. The case can be proved by DNA testing since there is a baby. He needs to go to jail and come out as a registered sex offender.
2006-10-02 16:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by z 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that a man with a 15 yr old is sick. There is no way that a fifteen year old should be with a 30 yr old, so let me ask...where are her parents? I think that in most states, even if the parents say its ok, charges can be filed (sometimes the parents are in trouble too, which also needs to happen). I know that you also agree that this relationship is wrong, but would turn them in to be vindictive to him. Well, I say whatever the reason you chose, turn them in. If she was 17-18, I'd say to leave them alone, but please save her....(feelings about her aside don't you think some one should?)
I also must wonder about the relationship they have. 15 year olds still do **** that gets them grounded, does he date/parent her? Does he have a deeper unseen craving for craddle robbing? I would worry about that too. How young will he go? And too bad that little girl didn't have parents..(don't care if a woman and/or man live in her house and provided her life and other items, they aren't parents, no wonder she is now dating a daddy. I can't say how long they will last together, but if its for much longer, maybe they should try out a seperation period, say at least til she is 18, and til he gets out from behind bars.
You should definately report the relationship and have it investigated, but don't ever tell anyone you did. Like I say, you may be doing it for the wrong reasons technically, but it is the right thing to do.
2006-10-02 17:04:07 · answer #2 · answered by girlnoladrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girls parents should have called the police a long time ago. What can a 30 year old see in a 15 year old? That's wrong on so many levels.
2006-10-02 16:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My daughter is almost 12 years old and in 3 years time if she is dating anyone anywhere near 30 I would be ringing the police most definitely and they can pick up what's left of him after I am done showing him how I feel about that.
2006-10-02 16:28:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's sick. He needs to be turned into the police. they may not do anything but, they need to have it on record for child support reasons and the 15 yr. old hasn't a clue what her life is going to be like. She is a baby. He is a pedafile, sorry but it's true. Turn him in. If yu can't find someone else that dislikes him and have them do it. That's awful. He'll be looking for another one soon...mark my words.
2006-10-02 16:09:01 · answer #5 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the Police
2006-10-02 15:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's sick u should call the police cuz she is too young to be having babies,but u know if u call they gon confront her parents about this situation which is a good thing cuz they need there butts kicked if they know.And they might just take that baby from her,I don't feel sorry for them.
2006-10-02 16:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by Sister Queen Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn him in NOW. What he is doing is called statutory rape, even if she is consenting. I am surprised that her parents aren't calling the cops themselves!! Or do they know that she got pg from a 30 your old? It is totally illegal for anyone over 18 to be having sex with anyone under 18. Anyone under 18 dating anyone over 18 is considered jail bait to the one over 18. What they are doing is soooooooooooooooo wrong. If she were over 18, then it wouldn't be a problem.
2006-10-02 16:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would turn him into the police... that right there is considered rape because she is a minor. that is wrong. i mean what if that was your 15 year old child with a 30 yr. old man's baby? i dont know what i would do... i would turn him in if i was you because if you let them be then he could do something to hurt that lil' girl
2006-10-02 16:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How should we know how long his relationship will last? Yes, call the police. He should and will go to jail. That's considered pedophilia. He will be labeled a pedophile for the rest of his life and should be.
2006-10-02 16:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋