well there is this guy named Jeff that we both like and i told her that and she was basically like dont go after him, i want him...well i went to a party this sat and Jeff came too well my sister told me i should go for him because he told us he doesnt even like my friend like that and she comes off kinda stalkerish well we went back to my other friends house to watch movies & the rest of the night we just sat on a recliner and cuddled and we ended up making out, well we go to a very small school and news gets around FAST. so i figured she would find out somehow and get mad so i thought id be honest and tell her b4 it got crazy, after all she isnt dating him or anything..but she got mad and quit talking to me today and ignored me all day after i told her! what should i do!!! i was being honest and everything.
2006-10-02 15:45:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Honey, first come, first serve. If she really wanted the dude, why wasn't she at the party or getting an invitation from him to go to the party....besides, he thinks she is stalkerish, tell her that ....she didn't have a chance with him to begin with. If she is any kind of friend, no guy will come between the two of you.Ten Brownie points to you for being honest!
2006-10-02 15:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by housemouse62451 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't want to come around after u have tried to talk with her then it's on her. It's like u said it's not as if she and he were dating or that he liked her.
I think she's hurt and maybe even a little jealous. U should try to talk with er again and tell her that she shouldn't mad at u over a guy, it's not worth breaking up a friendship. Tell her that u can understand how she may feel but u really didn't steal him, it's just that u liked him and it just so happens it likes u back and that u and he are not gonna run off and get married ur just dating and who knows that may not last.
She has to know that it's silly of her to take it out on u that he likes u. Did u tell her that he felt she was coming on a little too strong and he don't like girls who come on too strong?
She may come around if not then u know where the friendship stands with u 2 she's willing to end your friendship with u over him( and he don't even like her)
I hope she comes to realize there are other guys.
2006-10-02 23:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone...her anger will pass right away she finds someone else...and if it doesn`t then it means she has never been a real friend to you...she should be happy for you not angry,if it was her bf and you would have done that,then it would have been a problem,but as it isn`t like that,live your life and be happy...if you will listen all the time what your friends have to say you will never be happy,do as you feel...when I met my bf 3 years ago,a friend of mine was as mad as your friend right now is,she wasn`t dating him,she was just all over him,but he didn`t like her at all,so he choosed what he liked,and we stil are together and happy.I have no contact with that girl,cause she wasn`t a real friend,if she would have been then she would have gotten over it and searched for another guy cause there are enough for every single girl. so it is not like she lost something,you can`t loose something that you never had(i mean that guy)... Good Luck to you two,and I hope you will be at least as happy as we two.
Kiss
2006-10-02 22:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by donatella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to answer this question...is this guy wroth lossing your best friend over? She is mad because she told you not to go after him, and you ended up with him. I know it's not really you fault seeing as hes the one who picked you over her. But it really hurt her seeing you with him, and thought you would push him away if he came near you but instead you didnt. You need to talk to her, tell her that you care about your friendship with her and hope that you's dont let a guy get between this. Tell her that you were interested in him as long and as much as she was and that if he picked her instead you wouldnt of been mad. Tell her that if she could only fogive you and look passed this, and just be happy for you. If you decided that this guy is more important than your friendship than try to fix this with her and tell her what i explained above. But you think your friendship is more important than you are going to have to ask her for her fogiveness and if this guy will tear your friendship apart than you will break it up with this guy. But you really need to know what you want....this guy or your friend. But really think about it. If shes a good friend she will understand and try to put her feelings aside and let you be happy. Guys come and go but friends stick together.
2006-10-02 22:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her feelings are hurt. You are right, she wasn't dating him so you really didn't do anything wrong. You did the right thing by going to her and being honest. Just give her some time to think it all over.
2006-10-02 22:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it is an old problem between 2 girls. When have a guy in between they fight.
Just remember, there's a lot of guys in this earth but friends are irreplaceable.
2006-10-02 22:53:51 · answer #6 · answered by Taz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grl if that chic doesnt understand you then she isnt your true frined. move on and make a new friend. there are lots of fishes in the sea. ;)
2006-10-02 22:47:09 · answer #7 · answered by sexiincute108 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes just jealous, let her cool off for a couple of days, and then try talking to her
2006-10-02 22:48:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
But I thought u liked Trevor !!!
2006-10-06 04:58:26 · answer #9 · answered by Avinesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time!! Unless it gets too serious and drags on. then u ask her wat is wrong and says that u apologies for watever offended her. In time if that doesn't work out shoot her in the face. (I am just kidding) don't shoot just let her think and wait.
2006-10-02 22:57:28 · answer #10 · answered by Ha Ha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋