Me and daughter father has seperated after 12 yrs.But now that we are apart I miss him like crazy.I know when I was with him he could have been a better provider that's why I moved out of town so I would'nt run back to him.Although we love each other very much we both have moved on.The thing of it was I was sick of getting turn off notices and **** after he said things was takin care of,I think he's really feeling this new girl because when our 10 yr calls for him the new chick sits the phone down and don't tell him our daughter is on the phone.I'm really having a hard time coping and keep rethinking the situation over,like what could I have done to really make things work ,any suggestions?Please help I'm aout to loose my f'in mind!
2006-10-02 15:20:21 · 9 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok been there done that are you missing your lives together or just the fact he has found someone else.One thing for sure be honest with yourself.Sit down with 2 pieces of paper one for good things and one for bad things about you alls relationship and sometimes when you see it in black and white things come to light.Good Luck~
2006-10-02 15:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by luckiestarrr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1- work, it takes two incomes to support a family. One job to support one human being but two to support more than one.People life is only as hard as we make it. You have nothing more to do with you time but learning and working, and we can do both if we set our goals to do it. Quit worrying about what a man can and cannot give to you get out there and get it for yourself and those children. Now their looking to you to see if she can keep the cut off notices from coming, what is she going to do to make our life better.We are short on nurses in the world and you can become an lpn thru vo-tech in one year but that's a start and it's easy..Never depend on another human being for your existance, people will fail you, depend on yourself.
2006-10-02 22:32:17 · answer #2 · answered by dehba t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want to make things work with this person. You are better off without him. However, his new gf has no right to interfere between him and your daughter. Maybe you should go there in person when you know he will be at home and tell him about this. Or if you know where he works call or go there.
2006-10-02 22:26:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why ya'll separated. If yall are still in love then shoot for it and try to make it work this time. Sometimes the second time around works wonders. Good luck on your journey
2006-10-02 22:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by Texas_at_its_best 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you! He has moved on. Now you need to do the same. You deserve better for you and your daughter. puzzled
2006-10-02 22:28:37 · answer #5 · answered by Puzzled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time. He was not good for you or your daughter. It's hard now, but in time you'll realize you needed better. You have your daughter. Concentrate on her.
2006-10-02 22:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by beweird22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will eventually feel better.
Is he aware of how his new gf is doing when your daughter calls him? He needs to know.
2006-10-02 22:26:59 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only your husband and doughtier can change the new women.
Go and talk with them face to face and don't get angry.
2006-10-02 22:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD MAKE UP YOUR MIND DO YOU WANNA DITCH HIM OR DO YOU WANNA CONTEND WITH HIS FAULTS? THEN DO WHAT YOU THINK IS RIGHT IF HE IS WILLING TO GO ALONG WITH YOU. RTEMEMBER YOU AND HIM ARE SEPERATED NOW AND HE MAY NOT WANT YOU BACK.
2006-10-02 22:25:24 · answer #9 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋